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APRIL Anniversaries, Birthdays and Other Special Days

Here's a spot where you can post your special April remembrances - wedding anniversaries, birthdays, anniversaries of your loss, children'…

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Need help using the site? Ask here!

Hi friends, Many of you have been asking for a little more support in using the site. Our volunteers will stop by this discussion and answe…

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Introduce yourselves, please!

WELCOME to our community ... tell us about you!

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If you could choose one song to express how you feel after the death of your spouse what would it be?

I don't know if this has been posted as a topic before but I am curious if there is a song that seems to hit home for you with regard to t…

Started by soulmate

38 12 hours ago
Reply by HelensRay

Fundamentally unhappy and sad

Hello everyone - it will be 7 years for me this coming May 30th. I am fundamentally unhappy, sad, work people have asked m…

Started by Timelord

3 20 hours ago
Reply by LandL (Linda)

What is the most insensitive thing someone has said to you about your loss?

I was told that at least I have enough money. I told person i would trade that to get husband back after I picked up teeth.

Started by Canshifter

45 on Sunday
Reply by Mrs.Linda


Introduce yourselves, please!

WELCOME to our community ... tell us about you!

Started by Soaring Spirits

5048 on Saturday
Reply by Larryh0823

Where is everyone from?

We've created a new group to help Villagers find others who live in their area.  Just click on the link for your area and post within that…

Started by Hayley_A

274 on Saturday
Reply by J in Florida

Has anyone else gotten worse as time goes by?

At 4 years, I am in the deepest depression and can't find my way out.  I was better in the first years than I am now.  I am on an antidepre…

Started by LandL (Linda)

39 on Friday
Reply by Timelord

How old were you when your spouse died? How does your age affect your self-concept now that you're on your own?

I'm interested in hearing from widows and widowers of all ages to know what it's like to be a certain age when you have your loss. We have…

Started by Jill

741 May 15
Reply by Sad in Milton Keynes

What are the fundamentals of dating in your 60s and 70s?

I am not a kid anymore I am 66.   The last time I dated was 45 years ago.  I am not sure that I want to date yet but am thinking maybe in t…

Started by only1sue

820 May 14
Reply by NoLongerInBergenJC

Death Anniversary

My husband's death anniversary is coming up, May 28th. It will be four years, seems like yesterday, seems a hundred years  ago -- anyone el…

Started by Dee1960

13 May 12
Reply by Dee1960

Discoveries after death

Has anyone else discovered anything about their loved one after their passing? Anything that really upsets you and makes the grieving proce…

Started by invisbeth81

3 May 11
Reply by Pualili221


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