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vintage56(barb)'s Discussions (235)

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"Christmas has always been hard for me since my mom died in December when I was 9. Fr…"

vintage56(barb) replied Dec 18, 2018 to Christmas

21 Dec 24, 2018
Reply by sis

"J, do what you think is best for you. Don't worry about what other people want. "

vintage56(barb) replied Dec 16, 2018 to Christmas

21 Dec 24, 2018
Reply by sis


"Hi Ronda, welcome and (((hugs))). You need to be strong for YOU too. You need to tak…"

vintage56(barb) replied Dec 7, 2018 to Introduce yourselves, please!

5003 on Sunday
Reply by Lisa_says

"you are having a "perfect storm" of grief-inducing events. Any one of these would be…"

vintage56(barb) replied Dec 4, 2018 to 6 month grief burst

10 Dec 17, 2018
Reply by Blithe


"Welcome Lon. "

vintage56(barb) replied Nov 22, 2018 to Introduce yourselves, please!

5003 on Sunday
Reply by Lisa_says

"If you have assets but low income, you will qualify for great savings on ACA insuran…"

vintage56(barb) replied Nov 20, 2018 to Health insurance coverage for surviving spouse

4 Dec 29, 2018
Reply by Rich

"This will be my 4th year.  Second completely alone. First two winters, I was down so…"

vintage56(barb) replied Nov 18, 2018 to Holidays

10 Dec 16, 2018
Reply by Monkey

"We used to snowbird but always rented a condo, never owned. In fact he passed away d…"

vintage56(barb) replied Oct 25, 2018 to Snowbird Home

5 on Monday
Reply by Frank

"yes, here you are not alone. We have all been through it and still go through it. Li…"

vintage56(barb) replied Oct 10, 2018 to Lost

6 Oct 25, 2018
Reply by Rainy (Misty)


"I think it would be OK to shut down anyone who starts with a "Who had it worse?" by…"

vintage56(barb) replied Sep 11, 2018 to What is the most insensitive thing someone has said to you about your loss?

3424 Sep 15, 2018
Reply by Peach


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