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chef (John)'s Discussions (63)

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"This advice is spot-on. Six years ago, I felt like the remaining half of a tree that…"

chef (John) replied May 8 to How Do You Live As Half of a Person...

24 May 8
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"You're doing all the "right" things, RCH. (And good for you for finding a good thera…"

chef (John) replied Apr 27 to How old were you when your spouse died? How does your age affect your self-concept now that you're on your own?

670 on Monday
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"Not quite as bad, but I often left the back door unlocked."

chef (John) replied Apr 25 to Widow Brain: have you done anything DUMB or unusual?

173 May 5
Reply by Averysmom

"There is a lot of wisdom in what RCH has posted. Early on, we all believe/think/hop…"

chef (John) replied Apr 13 to Please tell me this raw, stabbing grief goes away

31 Apr 20
Reply by Stripes07 (Phil)

"Yes. I started another one week after my wife died. (I had kept journals off and on…"

chef (John) replied Apr 5 to Do you keep a journal?

7 Apr 5
Reply by chef (John)

"Keep reading and posting. You're still in the "shock" stage. There is a lot of wisdo…"

chef (John) replied Feb 12 to Just trying to deal with this.

230 Mar 4
Reply by Larryh0823

"It's because we dared to love another person so deeply and completely. In the meanti…"

chef (John) replied Jan 14 to Some of you may not like this

101 Feb 27
Reply by Lupe's husband

"The all-at-once aspect of the "stages" is probably the worst part of it. You think y…"

chef (John) replied Jan 2 to Some of you may not like this

101 Feb 27
Reply by Lupe's husband

"...Sorry, I think I am in the anger stage... That's the problem with thinking of "st…"

chef (John) replied Jan 1 to Some of you may not like this

101 Feb 27
Reply by Lupe's husband

"You're new to all of this, and each one of us has to find his/her own way. You are d…"

chef (John) replied Dec 13, 2016 to Am finding that the more I am alone...

22 Jan 3
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