My husband's death anniversary is coming up, May 28th. It will be four years, seems like yesterday, seems a hundred years ago -- anyone else feel the same?
Found him in the morning, unresponsive in bed. Called 911, paramedics couldn't revive, said "sorry Ma'am he's dead" --- I'm shocked, then police officer came, then CSi detective came (I guess to make sure I didn't kill him) then men in black came with black vans to take his body away ... never will forget that day...
So what does one do on the anniversary of a death?
We have no children, I have no nearby family.. so that's not an option -- any suggestions? What to do on a death anniversary?
Thanks everyone for your suggestions and kind words. I appreciate it. So sorry to hear, Norma, it's the same date as your birthday -- that has to be very hard. Frank, thanks for lovely reply. I, of course, am not celebrating this day -- wish I could wipe it off the calendar! But that isn't happening. Am thinking about going a movie --- just to get out of the house and get my mind off it....
thanks again to everyone who replied -- it's good know I'm not alone.