In case anyone is interested, I was introduced to "handwriting" jewelry by another WV member. It's available on etsy. You send a sample handwriting and this is engraved on a bar/tag and can be worn as a necklace or bracelet. The costs vary. I got my necklace in stainless steel for $18, shipping included. I have hubby's note written to me from a very long time ago and I used that.
Please send me the link. I would love to get Barry's "I love you" note on a necklace.
Vendor name is TheInfinityMemories.
There are many other vendors on etsy that do the same. The one I ordered - the holes are punched on either side in the middle so the bar does flip back/front or front/back as you wear it. Does not bother me. After I ordered, I saw that other vendors punched holes on either side at the corners.
I had tried putting hubby's ashes into a ring I got from ebay. The ring was a little thick for my finger. Right now, I'm happy with the handwriting necklace.