My husband was cremated and I am doing a bit of research into memorial jewellery. There are lots of options of items of jewellery that you can either store a tiny amount of the ashes inside, or even ones where they make a piece of glass with the ashes swirled inside. I was wondering if others have done something similar and do you wear it all the time, or sometimes? How do you feel about the piece? Do you have any advice for me?
My late wife had a bit of her grandfather put into a worry stone. She really liked it. She would carry it when she needed some extra strength. She also had it strung with a clasp and wore it on our wedding day. If it something your thinking about I would go for it. It can only provide comfort having something tangible for you.
My DH was also cremated. When he passed I saved a bit of his hair. I got a glass "perfume bottle" necklace from Ebay and put the hair in it (not visible). I did not save any of his ashes.
I also have a lock of my husband’s hair. Like you, I bought an antique glass jar with a silver top and out the hair inside. It sits on my bed table
We've had Forum discussions on this topic over the years. Here's a link you may want to take a look at (it also includes memorial tattoos):
When I stopped wearing my wedding ring, I had mine and his made into a necklace with the rings interlocking, and sort of like and infinity symbol. I lost it while traveling once and it wasn't until I got home and saw in the mirror it was no longer around my neck. I was so upset. I emailed the lost and found at the airlines, the airports, the rental car company and I called the hotel.. Nothing. Then I had some of his ashes made into an Ash Bead. I wear it whenever I'm not home. I make sure it's securely fastened, too!
My husband died this past February. During his illness, when he had lost the ability to move, he would always say “take me with you in spirit wherever you go”.I have had a small silver pendant made with a pinch of his ashes sealed inside. I designed it with the help of a local jeweller. It was not the cheapest option, but it meant so much to me to have exactly what I wanted. The jeweller took photos of the ashes being placed inside before soldering. It calms me to wear it. I don’t always wear it - just when I go to special places.
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