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The weekend after my husband's service a lady at church asked me why we never had kids in the 15 years we had been married. As if losing my husband alone was not painful enough.
Last week (6 weeks after his passing) a lady at work who I consider a friend asked me when I am going to get out of this funk?
There actually have been a lot more but I've ignored most of them
Get out of this funk WOW that is as good as the gal that told me I was a lucky girl.... how stupid
I've been very lucky to not encounter too many people like this. However, I have decided what to tell the next busybody who has such "good" advice for me... "Tell you what, when you've suffered the loss of a spouse - not a parent, not a friend, I'll consider your advice."
GOOD ONE have to write this down....
OMG how rude I would have said well, maybe you don't want to look at his face SO DON"T I look at Gordy everyday and write to him in my journal..... maybe this person had a horrible marriage.... or relationship and wouldn't want to look at her spouse.... but the stupid just keeps flowing out of their mouths doesn't it!