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Latest Activity: Nov 12
Started by InsideLove Oct 21.
My husband died on Aug 28, unexpectedly..I have a grief counselor- her husband passed away at 47 years of marriage too and so, she traveled this path. I do have a grief group, 4 widows 1 widower.…Continue
Ceilya, DITTO!!! :-)
One of the things that attracted me to this group has been it's positive, forgiving, and understanding of many grieving people. It doesn't matter our age or faith or culture or race or even what we want to vent about and share. We are united in experiencing grief. Some starting into the process, others stuck in the process, others making their way out of it. Many emotions are involved and they ebb and flow.
Today, in the Pacific NW, the weather is beautiful! About 70 and sunny with blue skies overhead. Not a typical day for us. It makes my heart happy -- and that doesn't happen too often either. Hoping you'll have an enjoyable day today too. (((HUGS)))
I love that I can come to this site whenever I need to be with people who connect with me in the one area of my life not everyone (thank goodness) does and that is in my grief. Grief doesn't discriminate on age, race, religion or gender. And that is why we who experience grief need to band together so grief doesn't get the best of us and one day we can beat it. I cannot thank all of you enough for being here for me. I know I will always be here for whomever needs someone to listen. Love you guys. Ceilya
I'm grateful to read how Widowed Village and this group has been helpful to so many of you. It sure has been for me.
I joined way back in January 2011, 4 months after my husband died and it was the lifeline I needed to keep me standing. There was a very diverse group of us that hung out in the chat room each night during those first months - both men and women in their 20s & 30s all the way up into their 70s, one who was pregnant, others with young children, some long married, some newly married. And none of that mattered. We came together because of the one thing we all had in common ... the loss of the person we expected to spend the rest of our life with.
I'm now the site admin and grateful I can give back to this community that was there for me when I most needed it. This particular group has had some wonderful conversations and has remained active while activity in some of the other groups has waned. I do hope you'll start the conversations back up.
I'd like to share this little video with you. I'm a Brave Girl (yes, at 66) and this book was written by Kallie Maughan, the daughter of one of the women who started Brave Girls (they're changing their name to Brave Living, because we are now offering things for men and teens, too) - and it's read by her then-4 year old daughter, Sophie. Let's all meet where our petals touch.
My goodness people. I'm not seeing this kind of unkind and inappropriate behavior in any of the other groups and it is very disappointing. I have deleted the recent comments and will suspend the WV membership of anyone from this point on who continues to post comments that are unkind or intended to incite arguments. We have many newly widowed people joining us each day looking for support and compassion and your behavior is not at all welcoming.
I will repeat again ... we will not be monitoring who joins the various groups. As I mentioned in my previous post, I looked at all of the profiles of those who comment regularly in this group and I would need to remove a couple of you regulars from this group - and also from other groups you have joined that do not fit your profile information. BelovedPeach honestly posted her age and was chastised; others who have been in this group for a long time have chosen to keep quiet that they were not 'Born in the 40s'. Please do not be so close-minded as to not accept all who choose to join in conversations within any of our groups. Everyone deserves to have a voice.
I am receiving daily emails at [email protected], barbee. I've sent you an email from that address to see if you receive it.
Remember the movie, BAMBI? It was Thumper who said: "If you can't say something nice, don't say nothing at all." A good rule to live by.
I've been a member of WV for almost 7 yrs. Even though I haven't posted a lot, I read almost every post not only in this group but some other groups as well. WV has, and still does, give me comfort and valuable perspective helping me thru this horrible journey, now new path trying to find. However, with some of the comments I've been reading in this group these past 2 months, if I were new to widowhood, I would immediately leave. This group has totally lost its original purpose. I have not stopped reading posts yet as there are several women/men that I respect and value their input. This is just my opinion and after reading some of today's posts, had to comment.
Isn't this supposed to be a site where we support and encourage each other?
I have a question and sent it via email to the address above: [email protected] It would not send and the return message was that this address is not recognized. Now what?
Glad that LJ took a breath and decided not to leave. We need everyone's thoughts and opinions here to keep things balanced.
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