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Charles wife the things you do are very very normal i talk to Gordy all the time.... also have stopped going to church it doesn't help me.....
good for you dave b, there isn't anything that close to me :(
very good comment Ron B! We r here to testify.... but they won't listen...
ditto slick & jocelyn...
Gordy's widow, I agree. Last night I went to the Queen & Adam Lambert concert because of my friends who encouraged me to go. I had a great time and I while I was there, I was thinking of my WV friends who were not getting out.
we are NOT empty shells more like cocoons BECOMING SOMETHING ELSE! we are in transition..... weren't we all someone BEFORE we met our loves? We will always be changing and hopefully adapting sure it is hard and you want to give up sometimes but I HAVE TO BELIEVE THAT THINGS WILL BE GOOD AGAIN..someday
I know this is late BUT WEAXIE you have to go to keep up with your friendships...at least you have ones that ask you..... next time you have to go get out..... my trip to Boston was exhausting but I was so glad to get out of the house and not be i n my own head
Bergen, thanks for the soapbox. Needed to hear it. Been thinking along this same line my self. Don't want to get stuck and have been feeling stuck lately...that said I'm almost at 6 months and still don't have a clue. Haven't been on WV as much lately because I need to get away from it, also have that concern about the "crutch".
Love the ppl here and the site, just need a break sometimes. Shalom
BergenJC, my husband asked for euthanasia, too, but not until the disease and pain passed a threshold. We both figured it was just downhill from there, and it turned out to be true. But, it wasn't legal in our state and our estate lawyer advised strongly against it since I was the beneficiary of his will. I did the best I could (he spent the last 2-1/2 months at home) to keep him comfortable, but it was not a fun time for either of us, nor for his adult son who had moved in to help.
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