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TRAVELING ALONE?

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Giving Myself a Panic Attack

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The hardest time of day

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Deja Vu all over again?

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Problems with moving

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Comment by WoodTurner on June 29, 2018 at 11:34am

Thanks Barzan.

Comment by Barzan on June 29, 2018 at 5:50am

Hello Wood,  Welcome to our group.  This is not a journey any one of us wants to be on but comforting to know you have a place where you can share your grief to those who understand.  So sorry for the loss of your wife.  Your grief is very raw.  As I think back 7 years, I can imagine your pain.

Comment by WoodTurner on June 29, 2018 at 5:36am

Hi all. Just joined after losing my wife in May.

Comment by Barzan on June 27, 2018 at 5:15am

Thanks Mike.  I just signed up for Widows and Widowers.  Always good  to have access to several avenues of support.  

Comment by Mike on June 27, 2018 at 4:34am

This is a great group and has helped me a lot. For those of you on Facebook there is another group wihich I find helpful. It is Widows and Widowers, All Welcomed. I find this group helpful also. The link is below :

https://www.facebook.com/groups/347795365429216/

Comment by NoLongerInBergenJC on June 25, 2018 at 12:54pm

@Lioness:  I always remind myself that I had given up on ever finding someone to spend my life with literally the day before I met my husband.  And I never dreamed that day that we would ever even go on a date, never mind spend 30 years together.  No, it wasn't all moonlight and roses, and the last ten years were hard sometimes (I now know that a lot of this was what was going on in his brain, but I couldn't know then).  But I am so grateful that I had it, especially when I think about what I thought my life would be like just the day before I met him.

Comment by Lioness on June 25, 2018 at 11:04am

Yes I can relate to that so much. A close friend who is in an unhappy marriage for 30 years reminded me the other day that I was so lucky to have been in a wonderful loving relationship for 28 years with my husband, while she had spent all her married life wishing she was not married to a deadbeat. She reminded me that I still had all the happy memories of our time together, and focused me on that instead of the pain of missing him. I am 5 years without him, and miss him every day. I recently found a group for widows and widowers that share social events, not a matchmaking group, but a safe place to be social. We'll see how it goes, but hope to make some new friends who understand the pain of losing the love of my life, and are open with sharing stories, as well as laughter. I feel lucky to have found this group, a couple hundred widows and widowers.  There are do many people in this world who have lost their lives, we are truly not alone as we struggle to find new life and meaning. 

Comment by Muns on June 25, 2018 at 9:57am

So sorry for your loss Allan.  LP, I so appreciated your post.  "Of course, that's why the pain is so bad, but it means we have had something many people never get in their lives.  And I wouldn't have given up those 23 deeply happy years for not feeling pain now."  I also had 23 happy and loving years.

Comment by Melissa on June 24, 2018 at 9:11pm

Allan_sch, I'm so sorry for your loss. I know how much you miss your wife. As LP said, we had LOVE. There are so many people who never felt the kind of love we felt for our person. That love is a blessing, and it never dies. I wish you peace and comfort in this new season of life.

Comment by Allan_sch on June 24, 2018 at 5:45pm

I was married for 30 years with my wife, I sure miss her. She went home to be with the Lord on May 14th 

 

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