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Comment by Litlpaint on March 25, 2011 at 7:41pm
Hi! I'm new here, lost my spouse in August of 09. Hoping to make new friends here!
Comment by Skylark on March 25, 2011 at 8:42am

Hi all. I was born in 55, widowed last fall 2010. I went through menopause at age 51. Don't hate me, but it was a breeze. It lasted about three weeks. I later found out it was because of a drug I am on for epilepsy, Neurontin. It helps with menopause symptoms.

  I still do "cycle" with my daughter a bit, though. When she gets her period, I tend to get migraines, so I have to watch what I eat at HER time of the month, and I am more prone to feeling incapable of handling things without Philip at that time.

  I am emptying my nest this spring, so THAT should get better.

Comment by Paula on March 19, 2011 at 2:38pm
Just wanted to add to the dicussion. When my husband was dying, the stress was unbelievable. His two sisters and I had all stopped getting our periods months ago, and yet we all started up again at that time.
Comment by Eowyn on March 19, 2011 at 5:16am


Exactly, its up to the doctor. I have researched this area and there are risks and I think we should avoid giving medical advice here. That's all I'm saying. Thanks!

Comment by Eowyn on March 19, 2011 at 4:47am
Hi MerryWidow and mle52,,,Emotional stress can lead to having a period again if in menopause. I think we should avoid recommending treatments such as hormone therapy as being 'safe' as we are not doctors and some forms of treatment have been shown to have risks. I think I was still on an emotional roller coaster seven months after my first husband died. I agree, a visit to your doctor may be helpful... going through the change and grief is rough!
Comment by vaj123 on March 17, 2011 at 5:17am

I'm so sorry for your losses, I give you a lot of credit for making an attempt to connect with others who may be in a situation similar to yours. I personally am still trying to process the death of my husband and my life without him. For you and the others who have suffered multiple losses I can only say how sorry I am, I truly can't imagine living through it twice, you people inspire me. I believe that you will find others who can empathize with you, I know that I'm very thankful that I found a place like this.



Comment by daycare2011 on March 17, 2011 at 4:42am
I was born in 1953 married my first husband in 1970 after 7 years of being together.   Widowed in 1999.  He went to work and died quickly of a heart attack.    Married for the second time in 2003 after 2 and a half years of being together and was widowed for the second time On November 19th 2010.   Not sure what I am supposed to do now!
Comment by Carygarcia on March 14, 2011 at 5:52pm
I was born on September 4, 1956. I was married for 30 years plus 8 years of 'going out.' My husband passes away from pancreatic cancer on September 25, 2008. I miss him each and every day.
Comment by sofine4952 on March 14, 2011 at 10:46am
Hi everyone.  I was born Feb. 8, 1956.  I was married for 25 yrs. and was widowed in Jan. 2008 due to suicide.  I am so happy to have found this website.
Comment by DaFrov on March 10, 2011 at 9:41pm
Born in '58, widowed at 45 June 30, 2003 at 1008pm.

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