It has been nearly two years since my Husband died suddenly, and I find myself putting off doing simple things that I need to take care of. There are so many things, like going through his model railroad and drum things...learning to use the lawn mower...I could go on and on... Today I need to try and find out if the warranty on his pickup truck would be voided if I move it into my name, and whether or not I need to move the car loan into my name. He bought the truck a few months before he passed, and I can not bear to sell it so I have just kept up the payments. Do any of you find yourselves avoiding simple things that you know need to be taken care of?
Thanks, I am glad to hear from someone else who is taking things slow. I am struggling with knowing these things are piling up, and that I need to do them.
Thanks WidowedBride....I know that most of this is just me wanting to fix everything as I tend to be that way.
Oh my, I can't imagine how terrible that must be. Thank you for this, makes me feel better knowing that I am not taking too long to shake this incredible sadness and grief that I feel. There was no need for probate in our case as we have never owned a home, always rented, and we did not have much in savings. I am still working and getting his pension so I will be ok money wise...just need to try and get on track with my personal motivation and learn to do all the things he normally took care of.