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H2obapper you are so young...too young for more years of chronic pain...get some people you love ad ask them to be at the hospital when you have the next surgery. Try to think beyond the surgery. If you were old I'd say think again but at 32 you have 60 or so years to go...just do it and get to the other side of it. Anxiety is to be expected...prayers lj
It's the little things that really get to me. My day was going ok until now. My husband and i worked for the same company and I just noticed today that they finally removed him from our system and he is no longer showing on my work's instant messenger. That hurts.
Rose read your incoming mail....just start those small things and every time you have a tiny success in something you will feel a tiny bit better...over time and pain... small daily accomplishment will help you don't have to want to do things do them anyway and they will make a path for you- a path you cannot see right now because you are so low in spirit. Start to look at life as a place to help others as well a yourself. Don't have to make sense and can't go back ...but forward is available. lj
Thank you MyLife. It is good that someone understands..
My heart goes out to you, Dark Rose. I know exactly how you're feeling <3 <3
Today has been really hard. I weight a 1000 pounds today. I just wish I didn't exist. I still continue to feel outside of my self, watching my world break, watching the world go on. In a daze of some kind, feeling like a stranger in my own body. I don't understand how something of this kind is possible. I don't want anything, I don't want to get better, whatever that means. I just want my husband back. That is all I want. I am tired of running in circles, running from this nightmare. Trying to exhaust myself i am tired of it, I just want him here so I don't have to do any of this. I want to hear his heart beat, I want to have him around me. I want to watch him sleep. Why can't I do this anymore? Who am I? I don't recognize the girl I now live in. The face if familiar but that is all, what I say and do now just doesn't make sense.
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