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Suddenly Widowed Discussions (30)

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I am new to this forum, but not new to this journey. My husband died suddenly in 2013. He had talked about back pain for a few days and nev…

Started by Elizabeth

15 Jan 6
Reply by going.on.slowly

Being a new widow

I became a widow on August 16. I also being the lone ranger in raising our boys, age 9 and 13. I feel like everyone around me things I am a…

Started by widowboymom34

5 Dec 30, 2019
Reply by Lost Girl

Anniversary Today

today is my anniversary. The second since Tom died. Last year I was barely functioning, and his memorial service was 2 days after our anniv…

Started by jlsrdh

4 Oct 9, 2019
Reply by Mary

this is perfect site to journal

 this is the perfect site to journal, and express any thoughts and feelings we all go through at these terrible times. Its is helpful to re…

Started by jlsrdh

4 Sep 23, 2019
Reply by Laurie

Guilt, Shame and Pain

Hello Group. I don't know if this is the correct place to say this or talk about what has taken place this last week but I need to let the…

Started by Snagglefoot

20 Sep 23, 2019
Reply by Laurie

So Many Unanswered Questions

Hello All: My husband of 19 years at the age of 46 died suddenly on August 2nd of this year.  I have so many unanswered questions as to wh…

Started by TeresaNY

18 Sep 22, 2019
Reply by going.on.slowly

This is so hard

 Reading through some of these posts is so sad. My husband, Bill, passed away August 12 of this year. He was not I’ll, Vegan, avid workouts…

Started by Jules

17 Sep 20, 2019
Reply by Jules

Breaking Point 1 year

I year ago today my husband of 38 years, Tom, died suddenly from a sudden heart attack. I had 2 intense dreams last night that he was here,…

Started by jlsrdh

11 Aug 21, 2019
Reply by BA7.5

He deserved so much more love

At least once a day, I feel intensely frustrated & sad because my husband was exceptionally wonderful to me, and I keep wanting to give…

Started by KJPE

12 Aug 17, 2019
Reply by Roxana

Regrets about what I didn’t realize

My husband Randy died of a sudden heart attack 3/2/19.  He was fine at 8 pm and dead in the hospital by midnight.  The shock was tremendous…

Started by DebiT

6 Aug 12, 2019
Reply by DebiT


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