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Suddenly Widowed Discussions (32)

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He deserved so much more love

At least once a day, I feel intensely frustrated & sad because my husband was exceptionally wonderful to me, and I keep wanting to give…

Started by KJPE

12 Aug 17, 2019
Reply by Roxana

Regrets about what I didn’t realize

My husband Randy died of a sudden heart attack 3/2/19.  He was fine at 8 pm and dead in the hospital by midnight.  The shock was tremendous…

Started by DebiT

6 Aug 12, 2019
Reply by DebiT

Since He Died...

People are always telling me how strong I am.  I don't feel strong.  It's rare that a day goes by when I don't cry.  You could probably cou…

Started by Crabby

9 Jun 23, 2019
Reply by Pualili221

Walking the line tonight

The line between what is and what was. It is more of a tightrope, that often at this hour starts to fray.  My sailor, soared last August. H…

Started by BlueRoses

3 May 15, 2019
Reply by lulu74

Old Mementos

Tonight I was going through boxes in the basement, trying to declutter some because I have to move.  Don died 9 months ago yesterday.  i we…

Started by Crabby

3 May 1, 2019
Reply by Roxi

1 Year Anniversary

I am coming up to the 1 year anniversary of my husband's sudden death. How do you cope with such a profound loss? One minute I am fine and…

Started by GrievingandLost37

2 May 1, 2019
Reply by Roxi

Heard on old tv show.

Since Tom died, I watch a lot of tv. It’s noise in a very silent house. I have on the DVR numerous shows, new and old. One of the old shows…

Started by jlsrdh

4 Mar 26, 2019
Reply by Solsticeowl

The Shock Has Worn Off

The shock of losing my husband has slowly worn off.  I am left with the reality that he is never coming home.  I will never hear his voice…

Started by GrievingandLost37

10 Mar 25, 2019
Reply by KJPE

How can the sun still shine?

I lost my husband on 2/22/19.  We had only been married 3 years and together almost 7, but it felt like we lived 20 years - happily - in th…

Started by Solsticeowl

9 Mar 23, 2019
Reply by Solsticeowl

I've never known love like that before

My Joanna and I were together for 23 yrs. Last May she had a surgery to clip an aneurysm and instead was in surgery 14 hrs for a deep brain…

Started by Doxielover

11 Mar 2, 2019
Reply by KJPE


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