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My husband had a stroke and died 12 hours later. Reading everyone else's messages has made me feel fortunate because I got to say I love you one last time, and so did he.
So glad Supa created this group! Andrea and Carol..my husband died of sudden heart attack during a hockey game and collapsed at the bench right after he got off the ice. Andrea, I am also in Canada.. in BC on west coast.
I got a call and got picked up to go to the hospital where they told me he had passed. I had no idea prior to that. I was just told he collapsed.
He was 42.
Andrea and Carol .... my date is December 18 (2007). Jim died of an aortic dissection. It happened suddenly but he was life flighted to a great hospital in the Houston medical center, where he was stable for a few hours. He died that night in surgery .... neither of us even suspecting that would be the outcome.
And Andrea, I didn't realize, until I just now read your post, that today is the 18th .... another anniversary date .... but it's over in 5 minutes. You're so right about grief being measured like the age of our babies .... by days, weeks and then months. I found that so odd, even as I did it.
So, after 3 years .... the 18th doesn't haunt me the way it once did. Thankfully.
I lost my husband to suicide on April 30, 2008. I was in the hospital after a meltdown. My mom showed up at the house because one of the kids left their backpack in her car and called 911, there were dangerous levels of carbon monoxide in the house so the boys needed to go to the hospital. They were 11, 7, and 5. They didn't see him, my mom found him and kept them from him (he had barricaded himself in the garage). My mom told me in the hospital and I had to sign papers allowing her to take the boys from the hospital. Then, DHS got involved and "evaluated" me to see if they needed to remove the boys from my custody. All I could think was that if they took the boys from me too then I really would have nothing to live for... Of course, that wasn't really accurate thinking. They dismissed the case so no problem and the hospital released me the next day. It's been a struggle but I think we are making progress.
And, oddly enough, I am taking EMT classes so that I can be an EMT, then later a paramedic or a nurse (not sure yet).
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