Widowed in 2012

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Comment by LaurieR on June 9, 2012 at 6:23pm

Rose, I lost my husband suddenly to a cardiac event on Easter Sunday.  It has been 2 months and I have a very difficult time holding it together all the time.  I can not imagine having to deal with a wedding so soon.  I cannot give you any advice all I can say is welcome to this site where no one wants to be.  I have found people support you through things even your closest family and friend can't. 

Comment by rose on June 9, 2012 at 6:10pm

Hi everyone,

I lost my husband on Friday the 27 of April.  He was killed by a driver who was distracted on his way home from work.  I am retiring in June from 37 years of teaching.  My son is getting married next week and I'm having a difficult time holding it together. 

Rose

Comment by Deb__ on June 9, 2012 at 11:37am

I know Bonnie. It's heartbreaking, exhausting, maddening. I feel very lost and angry these days. x

Comment by Bonnie on June 9, 2012 at 11:17am

Hi Deb,I'm grateful for your kind message.My heart is breaking and numb at the same time.Glad to find a group of others who understand.

Comment by Deb__ on June 8, 2012 at 7:52pm

Lynne and sparkles, thank you both so much for the warm welcome. I really appreciate it xxx

Comment by Lynne on June 7, 2012 at 10:21pm

Hi Bonnie and Deb.  Haven't checked in on this group in a bit but saw your names pop up today and wanted to say how very, very sorry I am for your losses.  I think that you can find a lot of care and support on here and, certainly, people to chat with and share your thoughts and feelings with.  We are all going through much the same thing so the understanding part comes all too easy.  I lost my husband of almost 41 years on March 27th - a sudden and unexpected heart attack (no prior diagnosis or treatment) and I'm still struggling with all the feelings that come along with such a thing.  We're always sorry for the reason that someone else has to join our group but please know that we're all here for each other.  Wishing you all the best.  Lynne

Comment by Bonnie on June 7, 2012 at 10:03pm

I can't believe I need a group like this.Thank you for all the kind welcomes. I am still in denial I think.My kids have returned to their lives.I feel so alone.I'm sorry that anyone would need a group like this.I just hope I can make it through this part of my life journey on my own. 

Comment by Deb__ on June 7, 2012 at 9:52pm

Thank you for the warm welcome Ccdague. I am so sorry for your loss. I hate cancer so much. 

Hi Bonnie. Looks like we joined this group at the same time. Your grief is so fresh right now. Those early weeks are a blur to me now. I'm very sorry for your loss Bonnie. xxx

Comment by Ccdague on June 7, 2012 at 9:29pm

Bonnie and deb...I am so sorry that you both have joined our group....I lost my husband Denny on march 22 to melanoma. Bonnie...you are new to this as I was when I joined. Stay with us these next few months especially....we will help you walk through this bumpy path. Stop in to chat....there are many there who can hold you up when your own legs refuse to do so.

Comment by Bonnie on June 7, 2012 at 7:58pm

Hi,I"m new to the group.My name is Bonnie and I lost my husband May 27 2012.My pain is raw right now and I hate the idea of having to belong to a widows group.I was married to my soul mate 38 years and raised 5 great kids.He was ready to retire and we were going to do things for just us now.He died from a sepsis infection.I'm glad I found this group.

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