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Widowed in 2017

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Members: 182
Latest Activity: Apr 14

Discussion Forum

My free audio book " It's all about.... moving on "

Started by Wendy Apr 1. 0 Replies

Hi, My husband died in September 2017. He was the love of my life. During the last 18 months I wrote a practical book on how it feels and how to navigate through it. This is the link …Continue

Making new friends

Started by Mike. Last reply by Lala Mar 2. 24 Replies

I read a lot about people who have a great support group of family and friends. But my wife was my best friend and my family is far away. So my support group is digital, either online or on the…Continue

Has Anyone had any 'Strange' things happen in your house since your spouse passed?

Started by Shoosie2. Last reply by eightracker Jan 25. 14 Replies

Good Morning EveryoneI haven't had much of a chance to post anything recently, but I do read everything. I just had to ask this question. Two days after my Rick passed, December 20, 2017, I was…Continue

6weeks out and overwhelming sadness

Started by Luv4Z. Last reply by SweetMelissa2007 Jul 20, 2018. 9 Replies

Today I have an overwhelming sadness . Im sure this is not a stranger to anyone on this site. I get so sad all of sudden . I have 4 kids under the age of 12 and they see me crying every day. I try to…Continue

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Comment by Gunnerx2 (Carol) on March 16, 2018 at 9:58am

That's beautiful tooyoung.  I guess the answer is whatever makes us happy.

Comment by tooyoungtobealone on March 16, 2018 at 9:56am

Carol, I don't know and I feel the same way.  I wear my wedding rings on my left hand and his wedding band on my right hand.  

Comment by Gunnerx2 (Carol) on March 16, 2018 at 8:58am

How long before you stopped wearing your wedding band?  I cannot imagine taking mine off.   Carol

Comment by GracieB on March 2, 2018 at 8:43am

I'm very sorry for your loss,

thanks for your response, Maybe I will try the site you suggested.

any little bit helps at this point...

Comment by Shoosie2 on March 1, 2018 at 4:26pm

Gracie B 

I am sorry for your loss. I lost the love of my life December 20, 2017 to lung cancer. I am in the same boat as you. I live in the country too, and all I have left of my family is my sister and niece. I never had children, and my stepson is an hour away, but he's busy with his own life. I haven't heard from him since the night his father died. No close friends near  me either, so now I am going to force myself to get out and about in the next month. I hate having to do this, as it gets so much harder making a new support network when you get older. Maybe will have some groups that you would be interested in? That's the only place I have looked so far for groups somewhat near me (an hour away).

At least us country folks have each other on this site, and while it doesn't take the place of in-person interacting, it's reassuring to know that others are walking this same path

Comment by GracieB on March 1, 2018 at 4:06pm

I'm sorry for your loss also...

No no place around here to go, I have a neighbor who has been really supportive,

and who stayed with me the night my husband died, but she is 84...

and she has a family and her husband is still with her..

I am way out in the I have the phone and am able to email and text, but no cell service here...

am 8 hrs from my family, I am working on things, just getting thru every day is an effort..

but it is getting better..

thanks for listening, it is so much a help

Comment by Melissa on March 1, 2018 at 3:54pm

Gracie B, I'm so sorry. I'm trying to join groups to make new friends. Is there anything close to you where you could go for support and conversation? 

I miss conversation the most. It's so hard to be alone, but this group is so helpful. Please use it as a resource for making friends and maybe getting some ideas to help you move forward.

I wish you all the best, and please keep in touch.

Comment by GracieB on March 1, 2018 at 2:08pm

Thank you for your kind words

Comment by EarthSpirit (Carol) on March 1, 2018 at 1:32pm

GracieB, I am so sorry for your loss and happy that you’ve reached out here. It saddens me deeply that you have so little support in your grief other than your sister and father. But what gifts they are to you now! It has to be doubly difficult to be so isolated on a farm away from people. Please keep visiting here and letting us know how you’re doing. This is such a painful path and I wish you peace.

Comment by GracieB on March 1, 2018 at 1:20pm

I lost my husband in May 2018, suddenly, unexpectedly..has been rough..

i live very far away from my family and friends,  those who are left...

we were together for 30 years..

have no children together and the stepson I have left is not interested...

live on a farm way....out in the country..

no one gets it except my sister and I thank god for her, she calls me every day sometimes twice a day  since my husband died...

and my dad every day and he will be 88 next month..that's all I have left of my family..


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