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Widowed in 2019 Discussions (16)

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Still doesn't feel real!

It's been almost 3 months (30 Oct 2019) since my best friend, love of my life, and father of my two boys died in hospital due to complicati…

Started by Mimis

2 on Wednesday
Reply by Deb

Living a life I did not choose

September 16, 2019..... the day my life changed forever. Who I thought I was, the life I knew and loved is forever gone. My husband, 55, at…

Started by Lost Girl

17 Jan 15
Reply by Melissa

Being in public

I dread being at work or in public around people who know me. Inevitably someone asks, "HOW are you doing?" or "How were the holidays?" and…

Started by Justme

9 Jan 14
Reply by DIVA70

5 weeks and counting i

it’s been 5 weeks since my extremely healthy, active 64 year old husband passed away in his sleep. I have so much pain and so many tears an…

Started by Jules

15 Jan 13
Reply by Riskybiz

Holiday Plans

I'm sure I'm not the only one bracing for the first "holiday season" without my beloved. What sorts of plans are folks making? Doing anythi…

Started by Melissa

15 Jan 7
Reply by Lisa

10 months without my Husband heard this and had a good cry

Started by Pooh898

0 Dec 22, 2019


It’s been 3 months for me. It is the worst feeling in my life. Some days I think he’s coming back then I realize he’s not and have a breakd…

Started by Judyrose

25 Dec 16, 2019
Reply by Melissa

Hello everyone

I lost my husband Nov 11 2019 unexpected with a hard attack I have 2 young kids I am so sad and still It’s hard to believe that he is not w…

Started by Lis

14 Dec 14, 2019
Reply by Lost Girl

So many places to say goodbye

It’s been just over 6 months, and I may be just beginning to understand why so much is so hard.  I function pretty well in my normal routin…

Started by DebiT

21 Nov 27, 2019
Reply by Pat in Ct

Loss By Addiction/Suicide

I lost my husband on September 22, 2019. He was an alcoholic and decided to take a whole bottle of pills. The guilt is eating me alive. He…

Started by Mel

14 Nov 24, 2019
Reply by Mel


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