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Widowed in 2016 Discussions (85)

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Nothing Compares

Well, next week it will be two years since I lost my wife to cancer. There has now been 730 days to think about what happened, what went wr…

Started by Miket

4 Oct 17, 2018
Reply by Melissa

a good article

Started by Riley

2 Oct 4, 2018
Reply by catapan


Hi I just hit the 2 year mark for my husband--so very hard. I spent a lot of time in the house behind me and out in the yard with the 2 v…

Started by Austin

2 Jul 26, 2018
Reply by Austin

Sole responsibility for your own life and happiness

I know this many seem an odd discussion, as we are essentially always responsible for our own lives, but it seems to take on a new twist af…

Started by Tess

8 Jul 4, 2018
Reply by Tess

The Process

I have given more thought to the process my wife and I always went through on decision making - for things small and large. One of the cou…

Started by Miket

2 Jun 29, 2018
Reply by LostandSad

Another Trigger

I had to write - my wife’s birthday is in a few days and the thought of her not being here rips at my heart. I constantly revisit in my min…

Started by Miket

7 Jun 16, 2018
Reply by LostandSad

How are you doing?

How is everyone doing?  I thought I'd list some things I'm still feeling and new feelings or realizations.  I'm still lonely. I still have…

Started by Riley

25 May 28, 2018
Reply by Riley

So Special

You know, my wife was so very special. When I hurt physically, she had a way to make me feel better. And when I hurt emotionally, she was a…

Started by Miket

0 May 1, 2018

Confusion, Grief and Sadness

Hi all, I've been seeing so many posts in my inbox that are a variety of emotions and responses, of strength and struggle. I have been stru…

Started by Tess

3 Apr 15, 2018
Reply by Miket

As I Sit in Heaven

Hi All - I received this poem from one of my grief counselors a while back. I have it posted on my refrigerator door and every time I read…

Started by Miket

4 Apr 14, 2018
Reply by Miket


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