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Widowed in 2016 Discussions (80)

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Another Trigger

I had to write - my wife’s birthday is in a few days and the thought of her not being here rips at my heart. I constantly revisit in my min…

Started by Miket

7 Jun 16, 2018
Reply by LostandSad

How are you doing?

How is everyone doing?  I thought I'd list some things I'm still feeling and new feelings or realizations.  I'm still lonely. I still have…

Started by Riley

25 May 28, 2018
Reply by Riley

So Special

You know, my wife was so very special. When I hurt physically, she had a way to make me feel better. And when I hurt emotionally, she was a…

Started by Miket

0 May 1, 2018

Confusion, Grief and Sadness

Hi all, I've been seeing so many posts in my inbox that are a variety of emotions and responses, of strength and struggle. I have been stru…

Started by Tess

3 Apr 15, 2018
Reply by Miket

As I Sit in Heaven

Hi All - I received this poem from one of my grief counselors a while back. I have it posted on my refrigerator door and every time I read…

Started by Miket

4 Apr 14, 2018
Reply by Miket

Maybe this is what I miss?

It's taken me far too long to get up, showered and dressed today.    Some days are like this, aren't they? Too much ruminating.    Too muc…

Started by catapan

5 Apr 12, 2018
Reply by Riley

A Result I Did Not Expect

I traveled from Ohio to Michigan last week to visit with my wife’s family. I had not seen them since before my wife passed. I knew the even…

Started by Miket

1 Apr 10, 2018
Reply by Nitabug

Birthdays and Anniversaries

Today is my 27th wedding anniversary. I actually did not think about it when I woke up, then Facebook reminded me from one of my previous y…

Started by Tess

2 Mar 23, 2018
Reply by Tess

I am not ready for a new chapter yet

Well, I just stopped going to see the grief counselor. It has been 16 months of on again and off again visits. The counselor was moving me…

Started by Miket

4 Mar 22, 2018
Reply by Miket

Does it ever end.

It has been 16 months now since I lost my beautiful wife. I miss her so much. After 16 months I still cry several times a day for her. I g…

Started by Miket

11 Mar 17, 2018
Reply by Racingfan60


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