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Comment by Lulu on December 15, 2016 at 6:22am
Hey, I'm so sorry you never got to have your religious wedding. I feel soo lost too. If your Christian (and maybe if your not) there is a song I've been listening to quite regularly called Help Me Find It by the Sidewalk Prophets. I feel it sums up my feelings of being lost. I just put it on repeat and cry/ scream it out. I just don't know what to do. People say 'your young, you'll ... fill in the blank' but I think being so young our secondary losses are soo big. I feel I've lost my whole future too, my dreams and desires left undone. I have no idea what my future looks like now because everything I was working towards and building was wiped away and I'm back at the starting line not knowing what I want or how to even start rebuilding a life.
Comment by Mev's Wifey on December 15, 2016 at 12:40am

Hello.. I am 24.. I lost my husband 6 months ago due to an incompetent doctor.. We have been together since college - for 9 years more precisely.

We had our civil marriage in December 2015 and our religious wedding was to be held November this year.

It was the moment we were waiting for since we were adolescents. And everything was already finalized with our wedding planner.. 

Hoping to hear from any of you soon because right now, I lost all my dreams, projects.. I lost my world in fact..

Comment by Lulu on December 10, 2016 at 1:29pm
Also no worries about being lost. I feel lost now too. As the year wraps up I've been thinking of all the plans we had for it. We were going to have a baby and buy a house. We didn't get to do any of that but being as young as we are I have so many friends doing those things right now. It makes me wonder what I'm supposed to do now with my life.
Comment by Lulu on December 10, 2016 at 1:25pm
Hey, I'm also 26, was married 8 months. I lost my husband 10 months ago suddenly in a car accident. I'm sorry you have no friends where you live but it's always nice making new friends on here who understand you :)
Comment by Kitten4aLion on December 10, 2016 at 5:29am

Hi I just lost my husband Dec. 4th.....we were only married a year and one month. I am only 26 and i have no friends because i moved to a different town and he was the first person i meet here and i just thought hed be here forever and never tried to make friends

I am hoping i can find support from other people my age and im sorry im soo lost atm

Comment by Coral on April 2, 2016 at 11:39am
Oh NY goodness! Congratulations, thats such a blessing.
I know what you mean,during this pregnancy, knowing I have a our baby to look after gets me going.
I do that too. Just a couple days ago, thinking of all our memories made me cry and smile, so I decided to start writing down all of the good memories, and every time I think of a new memory, am going to put it in a photo album to go along with pictures of him and us for our baby.
Comment by DENISE on April 1, 2016 at 10:21pm
I miscalculated some I am actually 11 weeks and pregnant with twins I saw them on the sono...pregnancy is ok, back pains, rib pains, morning sickness which not only comes in the morning, aaaand my blood sugar drops often, but its all worth it for these blessings Gods given me. That does not sound crazy at alll, we do what we have to to cope, its us surviving. I try to talk to him, mostly God but him too, when I cry I ask him why he left me.
Comment by Coral on April 1, 2016 at 10:08pm

Denise, how is your pregnancy coming along?

I recently heard from family that a woman went to them and told them that he visits me, and is happy where he is. That somewhat brings comfort. I pretend he sleeps next to me at night, as crazy as that may sound, and it comforts me..though i wake up yearing to actually feel him again.

Comment by DENISE on March 18, 2016 at 8:28am
I am 10 weeks along. He told me it was a boy and that I was going to give the baby his name. He said hed always be looking out for me and our baby. I miss his physical him deaaarly.
Comment by Coral on March 18, 2016 at 7:38am
I've been considering seeing a medium, it seems r would be me at least a bit of comfort. It must be nice being left with knowing what he wants for you now.
How far along are you?
 

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