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Comment by Leesajanel on January 5, 2018 at 6:08am

my name is Leesa n im new here my husband matt passed away Dec 6 2014 at 5:28 am which was 21 days before our 28th wedding anniversary he was my high school sweetheart we dated all through high school then got married had 2 children we were happily married this was not how it was suppose to happen we were suppose to grow old together instead im alone God I miss him with ever breath I take 

Comment by Dianne in Nevada on December 31, 2017 at 11:09am

If you don't have plans this evening, pop into the chat room to ring in the new year with other Villagers. You are not alone. We'll be there for all US time zones from 11pm Eastern to 12:30am Pacific.

Comment by Soaring Spirits on December 25, 2017 at 7:24am

We're hanging out in the WV chat room for anyone who finds themselves alone on Christmas day. Join us!

Comment by Gary'swife on December 23, 2017 at 8:24am

#dougn52 -  I have met a couple of people who lost their spouses, and when we each found out the other was widowed, we could each talk about our experience without worry.    One of the things that bothers me is too many times when I talk about being widowed it makes people feel uncomfortable, so I have learned to not talk about it with "civilians".      

I had been going to a grief group, so of course everyone there was widowed, and it certainly is "the club no one wants to belong to", but it is always nice to know there are people who "get it".

Comment by dougn52 on December 7, 2017 at 7:32pm

I have never heard this discussed before.  My wife died in Jan of 2014, so it has been almost 4 years for me.  I have been in contact with many people in the same situation on this and other websites, but I recently met a 29 year old woman in real life with 2 kids whose husband died 8  months ago.  Has anyone else experienced this? Our meeting was quite by accident.  It seems for me, that meeting in person is quite different than meeting on the internet.  It is so much more real.

Comment by Gwamma on August 18, 2017 at 4:54pm
High alert indeed. If mother is escaping with son, there is a reason. Two sides to every story though. Bothers me that he is especially interested in befriending your wife. Would indicate that he is seeking assistance of some kind. (Like the teachers help in extracting the student circumventing school security?) Please advise both your wife and school of this suspicious behavior. I believe school security has experience enough to assist you best in matters of this nature.
Comment by Nieta on August 18, 2017 at 8:40am

Also shut down any social media accounts that either of you may have like Twitter or Instagram. 

Comment by Nieta on August 18, 2017 at 8:38am


You should both be on high alert.  I would personally shut down my FB account and make the police aware of the circumstances.

Comment by Gary'swife on August 18, 2017 at 7:39am

Doug- I do not think you are overreacting.   Perhaps it is because we know of very bad outcomes with these type of situations.  

Also, I know for myself after my first husband got cancer and then died, I became much less certain things would work out for the good.  I guess it's just experience that it didn't.....and maybe I should be more on high alert.    I would definitely hide your profiles on facebook, and also see if the police might stop by ......if the guy is watching your place this might discourage him.

Comment by Doug02122014 on August 18, 2017 at 3:34am
Let's set the stage here. I lost my 1st wife Darlene 2-12-2014 which correspond to the numbers next to my name on here). I got remarried to my 2nd Chapter wife Tamela 9-26-2015. Tamela is a 4th grade school teacher. Yesterday on the way home from school she said I have something to tell you when you get home. Turns out the new boy in her class that started Monday this week is on the run with his mom trying to escape his dad in Washington State. Dad showed up today at school here in Indiana and was very pissed. School was placed on lock-down. The whole time he was on school property he was determined to talk to my wife about his son. School officials refused to let him talk to my wife.

We're both my wife and I are on Facebook and he tracked them here. I'd say he's likely to show up on my front door or possibly follow her home or hell who knows what.

Before loss I'd be as happy -go-lucky as my wife is about it all believing all is well and she left this at school. Believing that because they threatened to call the police and he left the school grounds everything is going to be all right today. Believing that if he does come back the police will get to the school in time.

Am I going crazy here or should I be on high alert ?

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