Members

This site is run by widowed people, for widowed people

Widowed Village connects peers with each other for friendship and sharing. The moderators, administrators, and others involved in running this site are not professionals.

Please don't interpret anything you read here as medical, legal, or otherwise expert advice. Don't disregard any expert's advice or take any action as a result of what you read here.

We're friends, not doctors, financial or legal professionals, and we're not "grief experts." But we are here, and we've been "there."

sweetlady
  • Female
  • Deer Park, NY
  • United States
Share on Facebook Share

Sweetlady's Friends

  • Allan_sch
  • MartyG (ver. 2.2)
  • Rainy (Misty)
  • Erica
  • LostandSad
  • Nieta
  • Barzan
  • Faolan
  • denny1954
  • Jim
  • californiajazzy
  • Doug02122014
  • Patience
  • rodsgurl09
  • Dianne in Nevada

sweetlady's Discussions

to be friend and have a friend

Started this discussion. Last reply by kenslove Jun 15, 2016. 1 Reply

i am a widow since 2000 he died in israel jan 2000 of  a heart attack at age 54 due to their negligence i am 70 still work, cant believe it myself.   have a dog have two sons one who is married and…Continue

 

sweetlady's Page

Latest Activity

sweetlady commented on Soaring Spirits's group Suddenly Widowed
"I had a mother who wanted me back didn’t like my husband. Or she felt I left her and she had only criticisms, for my sons and called my husband a stranger as. She came first and my mother in law felt she could give the others and her son. Had…"
Sep 18
sweetlady replied to bellgamin's discussion First post - Aloha in the group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"hi I am 18 yrs or more and it still hurts. He died in Israel suddenly of a heart attack they gave him no cpror resuscitation they went thru my bag held me down supposedly for my I.d. I was alone to travel back to the USA they even gave me a hard…"
Sep 3
sweetlady commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"This for the message wish I could calm down somewhat and let it go all the things that hurt physically and emotionally bless u for taking the time"
Aug 27
sweetlady commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Sorry about ur pains Only I know what it is to be in pain and unfortunately as we get older. Problems occur I don’t know if my pains are from arthritis or fibromyalia be well and god be with u"
Aug 27
sweetlady commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"I didn’t have such a kind dad I trembled and shook when he talked tome when I cried he got more angry couldnt talk to him as nothing I ever said was right never gave me a kind wordonlyput me down took me ah long time even I was married to be…"
Aug 27
sweetlady replied to Jill's discussion How old were you when your spouse died? How does your age affect your self-concept now that you're on your own?
"I agree with u but at my age it’s kind of hard to find a companion someone supportive and kind"
Aug 26
sweetlady replied to Jill's discussion How old were you when your spouse died? How does your age affect your self-concept now that you're on your own?
"I was 54 when he died in srael Jan 2000 it’s now more than 18 yrs still hard I do work have a dog but have conflicts with my sons especially the older married religious one and it really tears me apart can’t change him but it hurts as he…"
Aug 24
sweetlady replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Need help using the site? Ask here!
"Im a long term member would like to hear from penpals anywhere and find contacts in Long Island if possible this elaine"
Aug 24
sweetlady replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion US: MID-ATLANTIC in the group Connect with others in your area
"Hi I’m a widow of 73 from Long Island I still work have a dog have a three wheel bike have two sons one single and one who  is 45 religious married with five children with him there is problems and issues as he puts me down with his…"
Aug 24
sweetlady commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"How old might u be  u seem so wise and mature Laura jay who helps u again bless u if u wish ever to talk I’m here elaine"
Aug 16
sweetlady commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Yes it does but still hurts good I work otherwise I couldn’t get out of bed or do anything and have a sweet dog too bless u for taking time for me and being so kind hope we can be friends"
Aug 16
sweetlady commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Yes it does but still hurts good I work otherwise I couldn’t get out of bed or do anything and have a sweet dog too bless u for taking time for me and being so kind hope we can be friends"
Aug 16
Rainy (Misty) left a comment for sweetlady
"Sweetlady, thank you for your friendship request!  You'd asked about meeting people in your area.  I'll work on finding out some options for you.  "
Aug 12
sweetlady commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"No she isn’t sending me the address my mistake in writing when I send the children something for their birthday never acknowledged if I had someone on my side it wouldn’t  be so heartbreaking"
Aug 12
sweetlady replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion US: MID-ATLANTIC in the group Connect with others in your area
"Anyone in Long island"
Aug 12
sweetlady commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"I am 18 and half yrs without my husband and it’s still hard I work have a dog ride bike keep busy only problems are sometimes I’m in a lot of pain I don’t know if it’s due to my back pain down both arms and legs or if…"
Aug 12

Profile Information

Comment Wall (5 comments)

You need to be a member of Widowed Village to add comments!

Join Widowed Village

At 1:00pm on August 12, 2018, Rainy (Misty) said…

Sweetlady, thank you for your friendship request!  You'd asked about meeting people in your area.  I'll work on finding out some options for you.  

At 4:59am on October 27, 2016, Paula said…
I notice your post is about 4 years old. Hope you have found a friend. I have been a widow for almost 4 years. I think we're the same age. I too am Jewish. I retired and have an empty nest. Moved to Commack in July to be near my daughter. After 46 years in California I have some adjustments to make. Paula
At 3:45pm on August 15, 2016, theses said…

I'm thinking of her, but the feeling of loneliness is not as bad. Only thing is that we won't ever know how getting older together would be like. I am widowed one year and seven long months.

At 8:10pm on May 10, 2016, Barzan said…

Yes, by all means we can be friends.  Suzan

At 5:40am on September 1, 2012, Joyce said…

Welcome sweetlady:  I'm sorry for your loss but I'm glad you found your way to this site. I hope you will find the same comfort and understanding here at Widowed Village that I have. In the beginning I just read the blogs and posts and lurked in chat. Post and join us in chat when you feel comfortable. It is nice to be among people who "Get It".

 
 
 

© 2018   Created by Soaring Spirits.   Powered by

Badges  |  Report an Issue  |  Terms of Service