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AJ commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 70s
"Double Decker, was thinking about this just this morning as yet another study was on the radio about the impact of no self care impacts on life expectancy. It's hard when we just don't have a choice. I too race home from work to relieve…"
Aug 16, 2018
AJ commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 70s
"Hi beautifulbreeze70, I hear you. My husband went to the gym one morning at age 45 and never came home. He left me and our three kids aged just 7, 6 and 2 at the time. It’s been 5 years now and the success and happiness of our kids is what I…"
Aug 3, 2018
AJ commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 70s
"Hi Kim, welcome. I’m Australian, though I currently live in Auckland with my 3 kids. I struggled to find any online support for young wids in NZ or AU hence this is where I like to hear from others who sound the same as me. It’s nice to…"
Jul 20, 2018
AJ commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 70s
"Hi, I'm a month off the 5 year mark. Still sucks to be honest but between raising 3 kids (7, 10, 12) and working full time there's not much time for dwelling. My 12yo made the A netball team at her school. Whilst I should have been so…"
May 2, 2018
AJ commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2013
"Hi, my husband would have turned 50 last Tuesday. One person remembered the occasion to me. I went out for some drinks with work mates who never met him and had no idea it was a special day to me. I just couldn’t sit at home. I also took my…"
Mar 24, 2018

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At 7:13am on February 28, 2014, Weaxie said…

Hey Aj, thanks for the great advice last night. I was being a baby. From now on I will just delete. I know Fridays are tough for you, but know I am thinking of you and so grateful you helped me get through my total bitchyness!!!!!

At 10:43pm on February 27, 2014, Weaxie said…

Love it, just pissed me off and so grateful you understand, but hate you understand-so sorry friend, my new pal. :)

At 8:54pm on September 20, 2013, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, AJ. I'm so very sorry for your loss, but pleased that you found us. You'll find caring support and friendship here.

Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville.


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