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Aberend commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Born in the 60s
"-I have the same sister in law that wanted all the attention. I was shut out from my husband's memorial and she actually had the nerve to try to steal his ashes from me. I was hurt at the time of his death and in the hospital so I signed a form…"
Aberend commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Born in the 60s
"Hi teriw,
I hope you have a wonderful trip. It sounds great that you'll be treating yourself to this trip. Will you keep us posted on this? I am traveling for the first time in November since my husband's death in June 2011 and to a place…"
Aberend commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"Hi Bonnie
I'm do sorry to hear all you've been thru but I can imagine you're an inspiration. Your words are so correct and comforting. Thank you for them.
((((HUGS)))
Andrea"
Aberend commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Suddenly widowed
"It does get easier. I'm at 14 months and everyday gets easier but I still have moments. I didn't want to live either and my husband took his own life after hurting me and although pain is here, I'm grateful to be alive. I too have to…"
Aberend commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Suddenly widowed
"I've needed to find words of comfort and my first year was so hard and it does get easier, not better, just easier as the months pass. Here's a quote from Rose Kennedy that I'd like to share because to me it's a little comforting…"
Aberend commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"Bonnie and KSGAL - I'm so sorry to hear that you've been in this position twice. Can I ask you, how do you find the strength to endure it? I ask because I'm only 44 and although I say I never want to marry again, it may happen and I…"
Aberend commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Suddenly widowed
"Dianna489 I hope for those signs every day. I mentioned before my sister in law asking for a sign like a dime and finding it and believing it was from my husband, her brother. Yesterday in the mail for the first time in my whole life, I received a…"
Aberend commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Suddenly widowed
"Hi Missy
It's been 14 months for me and I still haven't had a dream either but his sister has. She asked him to send a sign, something like a dime and the next day she found one. The other day in the laundry, I found just a dime and I took…"
Aberend commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Born in the 60s
"Arnie
You are so right and grieving and getting thru is a process unique to each of us. If you're ready, good for you. You've given me inspiration. I'm 44 and it's been 14 mos for me. My husband decided to end his own life, I did…"
Aberend commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Born in the 60s
"I think we are young. I was 43 ad could not believe it was possible to be a widow at that age. When I fill out patient forms at the doctor's, it feels so strange to check the W. Not middle aged, I hope! I miss my husband but I'm not ready…"
Aberend commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"Your attitude is great Woody's Girl and I think it inspires. It inspires me. Thanks for that!
Andrea B"
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- At 10:35pm on June 19, 2012,
VOLUNTEERSupa Dupa Fresh said… Welcome to our community.... I hope we can keep you company on your journey ahead. Please look around a bit and read this basic introduction to the site. You can find more information about how the community works under "Help!" in the navigation bar, and we'll send you a few newsletters with tips and ideas in the coming weeks. If you need a little more help, go to the Home page and look in the right hand column to see the link to a "Help Desk" form.
We all use the site differently, but we hope you feel comfortable sharing among us in the coming days, weeks, and months.
Big hug!
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- At 1:54pm on June 19, 2012,
wannabmartha said… Hi Andrea,
I would suggest reading posts and discussions for the time being and you might want to spend some time just navigating the site. Participate as you grow comfortable.....or not! ;-) Move at your own pace. Many newcomers post under the "Introduce yourselves, please!" discussion under forum, first. I'd also suggest joining a group that you relate to for more intimate discussion. There is a place to personalize your page and post pictures if you'd like. If there is anything private that you'd like to discuss, please feel free to message me. I know it's a lot to take in at first but I think in time, you'll find much support here.
- At 9:26pm on June 18, 2012,
Joyce said… Welcome Andrea: I'm sorry for your loss but I'm glad you found your way to this site. I know you will find the same comfort and understanding here at Widowed Village that I have. In the beginning I just read the blogs and posts and lurked in chat. Post and join us in chat when you feel comfortable. It is nice to be among people who "Get It".
- At 6:05pm on June 18, 2012, wannabmartha said…
So sorry for the reason you’re here but glad that you’ve joined us. You’ll find insight, understanding and support here at Widowed Village. We’re traveling the same journey together some further down the road than others. Join a group when you’re ready to get better connected. Participate in a forum and/or chat anytime. If you have questions, feel free to ask. There is always someone around willing to help.
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