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At 7:31pm on March 27, 2014, Brandee999 said…

hello Alexander!!!!  I wanted to say hi and see how you and the baby are doing. She must be getting so big now. I hope to hear from you soon. take care. Brandee

At 7:35am on November 6, 2013, my roses said…

My roses  November 6th 2013

Hi Alexander  I accept your friend request.  I will add this poem I just wrote  for us all.

The Journey


You are my hearts delight

And where you are I long to be

When you were there  our world seemed right.

I felt at peace -  and feeling free


Now  I am living through the night

A place I do not want to be

Its all because your out of  sight

And daily I’m in reverie


I think of you no matter what

And set aside the daily tasks

Things to do but I cannot

My face shows all the widows marks


Oh my love let your light shine

For I can no longer shine alone

For I am yours and your still mine

Both filled with the love that we have known.


As days go by  the yearning grows

parted now for such  a long time

How to survive, heaven knows

I only know that the spirit pines.


Nothing really fills the space

No matter what is done or said

I’m told to  carry on the race

Inspite of all the tears I’ve shed


Glorious hope comes in small pieces

Does not last  though - through the day

I do not know just what it teaches

All I know he’s gone away.


Now  its many months gone by

I ‘ve had a dream of his dear face

I felt the peace and  gave a sigh

In heaven  reunion  would take place.


At 4:10am on November 6, 2013, my roses said…

My roses  6th November

Dear  Alexander  Please know that we are all on a terrible journey and so understand what is happening for you too.  Please let us know how you are and share your story when you feel ready to do so.  I lost my beautiful husband in January 2013 and this website has been very helpful.  At least one can say exactly how you feel.  Almost everything you feel or have thought re grief has been said by someone on this site.

With  many blessings

At 4:28am on October 6, 2013, JPSwifeCathy said…
Hi Alexander
I"m so very sorry for your loss of Fabi:(. ! I pray widowed village gives you support like it has me. Cathy
At 5:47pm on September 28, 2013, Brandee999 said…
Alex I'm sorry about the 3 month mark!!! It sucks it really does. I was thinking about I & Sophia last night. She must really be changing & that has to be hard. If u need someone to chat with I'm always here friend!!!
At 7:11am on September 17, 2013, Leftbehind said…

Alexsander, Sorry for the loss that brought you here!  I pray that WV helps your healing process as we are all here in the depths of our despair.  Thank you for sharing your beautiful photos.

At 2:46pm on September 9, 2013, teebug said…

Hello Alexsander,

Thank you for the friend request and I am trying to make my way around to learn the site. I am glad I have found such a helpful place to know that I'm not alone. I'm sorry for your loss. Those are very beautiful pictures.

At 2:45am on September 5, 2013, rodsgurl09 said…

Alexsander, I'm terribly sorry for your loss, but glad that you've found WV. I hope you'll find the same support and understanding here that I have. I love your photos! Thanks for sharing them.

At 7:43pm on September 4, 2013, Brandee999 said…

i just wanted to say it was great getting to know you more last night. i enjoyed talking to you and learning more about your country and culture. i look forward to talking more in the future. it is nice talking with someone who is close to my age and is going through a lot of the same things I am going through. thanks alex

At 10:39am on August 30, 2013, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, Alexsander. I'm so very sorry for your loss, but pleased that you found us. You'll find caring support and friendship here.

Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville

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My wife Fabi, only 38, suffered a brain stroke (ICH) 10 days after the birth of our baby daughter. She passed away two weeks later, on July 23rd, 2013.

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