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Allan_sch commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Today is one year since my sweetheart went home to be with the Lord  i miss her everyday. It’s been a tough year, but I take it just Day by day "
May 14, 2019
Allan_sch commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"I’ve had my son and a family friend and her daughter living with me for the last year  this has helped me a lot to have a busy house "
May 7, 2019
Allan_sch commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"May 15th will be a year since my love of my life passed away, she was my rock:) sure can't believe it's been a year. "
May 2, 2019

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At 5:40pm on July 21, 2020, Borntobehappy said…

Hi Allan, 

I read your post on Lost after I wrote her. I understand completely what you said that Men usually go first. My AT, suddenly died after a fatal fall in his job/property at age of 57. I'm retired and had been helping him with his work for 5 years. Yes, it's not fair to be widowed at 59. This happened last year. I miss him every day. I'm praying a lot, being grateful and hopeful everyday. But day to day is so difficult when our constant companions passed. How are you feeling now since your post in 2018! Wishing you best...

At 4:24pm on December 27, 2019, Maggiepie said…

Hey there, thanks for reaching out. All the best.

At 9:29am on August 20, 2018, riet said…

Yes , it is not to understand. We were married for 47 years. My husband only wanted to live and take care of me and his family. And he got this incurable braintumor.  And of course there is no Why. But I keep asking: why him? We had such a good life together. And thought it would be forever. It was not.  I still can't accept that.

At 8:54am on August 20, 2018, riet said…

Hi Allan,

Thank you for caring and being my friend. Hugs Riet

At 6:36am on June 19, 2018, Rainy (Misty) said…

Hi, Allan welcome to the village I'm so sorry about your loss.  I love your sweet pictures.  

At 9:42am on June 18, 2018, Callie2 said…

Lovely pics in your profile! Sorry for your loss. Hoping you can find some comfort here amongst many that are grieving and those that have completed their grief journeys who still offer support. Thank-you for the friend request.   Cally2

At 4:28pm on June 17, 2018, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, Allan_sch. I'm so sorry for your loss, but pleased you found us. You’ll find caring support and friendship here.

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