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Allan_sch
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  • Lubbock, TX
  • United States
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Allan_sch commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"In the last 5 1/2 months after my wife passed away I been to 2 weddings, one funeral  and one anniversary party. I know life goes on, but it is still very hard to go to these places without my wife. I'm going to a family Thanksgiving party…"
Oct 30
riet left a comment for Allan_sch
"Yes , it is not to understand. We were married for 47 years. My husband only wanted to live and take care of me and his family. And he got this incurable braintumor.  And of course there is no Why. But I keep asking: why him? We had such a good…"
Aug 20
riet left a comment for Allan_sch
"Hi Allan, Thank you for caring and being my friend. Hugs Riet"
Aug 20
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Nov. 2018

"we had fun at Waco TX "
Aug 8
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Nov. 2018

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Aug 6
Allan_sch commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"I am also having a tough day, not the same without my honey "
Jul 4
Allan_sch commented on Soaring Spirits's group Suddenly Widowed
"Cindy I understand abouting eastin I have lost 20 pounds since my wife passing, we sat down at dinner and enjoyed the evening meal together each evening, we would talk about her and my day, about what we were doing for the weekend, maybe talk about…"
Jun 28
Allan_sch commented on Soaring Spirits's group Suddenly Widowed
"I feel if I just would have woke up and checked on her through the night I might have saved her life. at Midnight May 14th she need help to go to the restroom, so I got up and helped her out of the bed and helped her back in bed, I gave her a hug…"
Jun 26
Allan_sch commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"I was married for 30 years with my wife, I sure miss her. She went home to be with the Lord on May 14th "
Jun 24
Allan_sch commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 70s
"Do you have a good church? I feel for you, sorry"
Jun 24
Allan_sch replied to Luv4Z's discussion Crying in the front lawn
"It is ok, it just takes time with God's help, at least you were there:)  "
Jun 20
Allan_sch replied to Luv4Z's discussion Crying in the front lawn
"I hope everything is going okay now. I know it is tough my kids are a lot older. My daughter is 29 and my son is 26. My son still lives at home, thank God. I also have my daughter best friend from 1st grade living with us with her 9 year old…"
Jun 19
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Jun 19
Rainy (Misty) left a comment for Allan_sch
"Hi, Allan welcome to the village I'm so sorry about your loss.  I love your sweet pictures.  "
Jun 19
Allan_sch replied to Luv4Z's discussion Crying in the front lawn
"I most likely older than you but I do understand. I put together the funeral along with my adult kids for my wife of 30 years. Had to make discussions that I did not if I had the strength to do so. Now I keep getting bills from the doctors,…"
Jun 18
Allan_sch replied to Patty's discussion hormones
"Thanks "
Jun 18

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At 9:29am on August 20, 2018, riet said…

Yes , it is not to understand. We were married for 47 years. My husband only wanted to live and take care of me and his family. And he got this incurable braintumor.  And of course there is no Why. But I keep asking: why him? We had such a good life together. And thought it would be forever. It was not.  I still can't accept that.

At 8:54am on August 20, 2018, riet said…

Hi Allan,

Thank you for caring and being my friend. Hugs Riet

At 6:36am on June 19, 2018, Rainy (Misty) said…

Hi, Allan welcome to the village I'm so sorry about your loss.  I love your sweet pictures.  

At 9:42am on June 18, 2018, Callie2 said…

Lovely pics in your profile! Sorry for your loss. Hoping you can find some comfort here amongst many that are grieving and those that have completed their grief journeys who still offer support. Thank-you for the friend request.   Cally2

At 4:28pm on June 17, 2018, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, Allan_sch. I'm so sorry for your loss, but pleased you found us. You’ll find caring support and friendship here.

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