"Today is one year since my sweetheart went home to be with the Lord
i miss her everyday. It’s been a tough year, but I take it just Day by day "
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Allan_sch
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Allan_sch commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"I’ve had my son and a family friend and her daughter living with me for the last year
this has helped me a lot to have a busy house "
Allan_sch commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"May 15th will be a year since my love of my life passed away, she was my rock:) sure can't believe it's been a year. "
Allan_sch commented on Soaring Spirits's group Suddenly Widowed
"My wife of 30 years passed away 8 months ago
I cannot seem to move ahead. I made it through the holidays her birthday and our anniversary
but every day brings back wonderful memories. We just did everything together, now it’s just…"
Allan_sch replied to Kmelli3 (Kate)'s discussion Going out is so hard in the group Widowed in 2018
"Kate
I lost my wife of 30 years in May, still feels like yesterday. I did go to a grief class that did help. Christmas was very tough but we made it through. My son still lives with me. He has been a big help. My daughter only lives do the street so…"
Allan_sch commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Yesterday would have been my 31 Anniversary and tomorrow is 7 month from when my wife passed away. sure miss her. Christmas will never be the same "
Allan_sch commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"This will be the first anniversary, Christmas and New year without my wife of 31 years
i think about her everyday. Having trouble getting the Christmas tree decorations up
she loved celebrating the holidays with the family. I’m trying to…"
Allan_sch commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"In the last 5 1/2 months after my wife passed away I been to 2 weddings, one funeral and one anniversary party. I know life goes on, but it is still very hard to go to these places without my wife. I'm going to a family Thanksgiving party…"
riet left a comment for Allan_sch
"Yes , it is not to understand. We were married for 47 years. My husband only wanted to live and take care of me and his family. And he got this incurable braintumor. And of course there is no Why. But I keep asking: why him? We had such a good…"
Allan_sch commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"I am also having a tough day, not the same without my honey "
Allan_sch commented on Soaring Spirits's group Suddenly Widowed
"Cindy I understand abouting eastin I have lost 20 pounds since my wife passing, we sat down at dinner and enjoyed the evening meal together each evening, we would talk about her and my day, about what we were doing for the weekend, maybe talk about…"
Allan_sch commented on Soaring Spirits's group Suddenly Widowed
"I feel if I just would have woke up and checked on her through the night I might have saved her life. at Midnight May 14th she need help to go to the restroom, so I got up and helped her out of the bed and helped her back in bed, I gave her a hug…"
Allan_sch commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"I was married for 30 years with my wife, I sure miss her. She went home to be with the Lord on May 14th "
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- At 9:29am on August 20, 2018,
riet said…
Yes , it is not to understand. We were married for 47 years. My husband only wanted to live and take care of me and his family. And he got this incurable braintumor. And of course there is no Why. But I keep asking: why him? We had such a good life together. And thought it would be forever. It was not. I still can't accept that.
- At 8:54am on August 20, 2018,
Hi Allan,
Thank you for caring and being my friend. Hugs Riet
- At 6:36am on June 19, 2018,
Rainy (Misty) said… Hi, Allan welcome to the village I'm so sorry about your loss. I love your sweet pictures.
- At 9:42am on June 18, 2018,
Callie2 said…
Lovely pics in your profile! Sorry for your loss. Hoping you can find some comfort here amongst many that are grieving and those that have completed their grief journeys who still offer support. Thank-you for the friend request. Cally2
- At 4:28pm on June 17, 2018, Dianne in Nevada said…
Welcome to Widville, Allan_sch. I'm so sorry for your loss, but pleased you found us. You’ll find caring support and friendship here.
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