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Alma
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  • Mount Ephraim, NJ
  • United States
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One year mark is quickly approaching

Started this discussion. Last reply by Alma Jun 13. 4 Replies

But his birthday which is father's day this year, are first. And the waves of pain and disbelief are as strong as they were in the early days. God, when does it soften?Continue

The physical comfort

Started this discussion. Last reply by Frank Aug 30. 13 Replies

Is something I really miss. Just to be held and have my back rubbed as I grieve. How do you learn to live with that loss?Continue

My wedding anniversary

Started this discussion. Last reply by chef (John) Apr 25. 5 Replies

Today marks 28 years I was married to my husband. Our vows say " for as long as you both shall live ". He died. But I am still alive. And I still feel married to him. Our physical connection may be…Continue

None months ago today

Started this discussion. Last reply by Alma Apr 22. 4 Replies

Was the last day I ever saw my husband. He kissed me goodbye before leaving on a business trip. It was a Monday. He came back late Thursday afternoon but had to work late and so I went to bed without…Continue

 

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Alma replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Welcome to the forum. I am so sorry for your loss. "
Sep 5
Alma commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 70s
"@Devinbendig79. I am so very sorry for your loss. An unexpected death like that is very shocking. I am sorry your son was there. Since you can't do anything right now just concentrate on taking care of the two of you. Hopefully it won't…"
Sep 3
Frank replied to Alma's discussion The physical comfort
"Hi All, I would have to agree with Laurajay.  I'm 8 years out and I'd give my eye teeth for a hug. Particularly now-a-days with the CORVID mess going around.  "They" had a thing on TV a little while ago talking about…"
Aug 30
Melissa replied to Alma's discussion The physical comfort
"I find myself hugging and cuddling with my friends more. (Or, you know, I did until COVID)."
Aug 27
Mrs.Linda replied to Alma's discussion The physical comfort
"It is hard.  No one will ever hold my hand again or kiss me as my husband did.  No one to put his arms around me in a loving hug.  I was not a very good cuddler and I regret now but I don't know if I will ever learn not to miss…"
Aug 15
Robin_SJ replied to Alma's discussion The physical comfort
"Alma, I wish I knew, my husband was a loving soul and I miss him so much.  I miss snuggling before going to sleep, waking up together, walking and holding hands and being together.  I feel despair so much of the day.  The only…"
Aug 7
Alma replied to Alma's discussion The physical comfort
"We just do. I have just past the one year mark of my husband's death. I still miss his touch at times. This pandemic isn't helping things either. But I get hugs where I can. Pet my dog a lot too. And try to accept that in this life his…"
Aug 1
Carousel replied to Alma's discussion The physical comfort
"It's been six weeks since I lost my wife, but the longing for her touch is not decreasing at all.  Just the simple act of holding hands while out grocery shopping or sitting on our couch makes me ache and something I miss terribly.  A…"
Jul 31
Alma replied to harvdzny's discussion New Widow Introducing Myself
"You are most welcome. I also want you to know I got a notification of your post in the Introduce yourself thread.  Others will respond soon. Also, if you haven't done so yet check out the groups. There is one for suddenly widowed that…"
Jul 31
Alma replied to harvdzny's discussion New Widow Introducing Myself
"Welcome to the forum. I am so sorry you have to be here. I would like to suggest you repost this in the Introduce yourself thread. Many people have that thread on notifications so you will get a lot more responses in it."
Jul 31
Estragon replied to Alma's discussion The physical comfort
"I'm now pretty firmly convinced that the covid distancing has/is having some pretty profound effects on at least some of us.  I developed a sort of shake got bad enough that I couldn't have a bowl of soup or pour a glass of…"
Jul 26
Alma replied to Scotty's discussion New to the "Club"
"I am glad you will be able to see your family. It helps."
Jun 28
Alma replied to Hayley_A's discussion Where is everyone from?
"I am From South Jersey. Philly metro area"
Jun 24
Alma replied to Scotty's discussion New to the "Club"
"Welcome to the forum. I am so very sorry for your loss. I lost my husband to suicide nearly 11 months ago. Grieving has been the hardest thing I have ever done. The Covid outbreak has also added to the loneliness. Try to take solace in knowing you…"
Jun 20
Alma replied to Alma's discussion One year mark is quickly approaching
"I am sorry you have two hard days this year"
Jun 13
CryinCali replied to Alma's discussion One year mark is quickly approaching
"My husband died on fathersday last year and all i can say is i feel it too.  Maybe even more now than in the early days because at least at that time i was numb and or had the surroundind support of family and friends. Who would come stay with…"
Jun 12

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At 9:58pm on October 10, 2019, eliana said…

Welcome to Widville, Alma. I am truly sorry for your loss, and hope you find caring support and friendship here.

Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville. Take care of yourself.

 
 
 

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