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Angela
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  • Downers Grove, IL
  • United States
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Sudden loss

Started this discussion. Last reply by MenuFalls Apr 10. 17 Replies

Why are some days so much worse than others? I just want to fast forward life. It seems so empty now. I see happy people and feel envy. I see couples and feel envy. I get upset thinking the cruel and…Continue

 

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Angela commented on Soaring Spirits's group Suddenly Widowed
"There are so many "firsts".  They are so very painful.  So are the waves of grief.  To be going along okay and then, boom!, hit with a wave of such sorrow.  Easter was difficult as in church, the sermon talked about…"
Apr 17
Angela commented on Soaring Spirits's group Suddenly Widowed
"That's why we are all here, sadly.  Alone, I've learned that people who never truly experienced grief, have no idea what to say.  We haven't been taught how to cope with death and so, we in turn feel awkward.  Some of…"
Apr 13
Angela commented on Soaring Spirits's group Suddenly Widowed
"I agree.  It's only been 39 days for me but this constant agony and anxiety makes everything so difficult to manage.  I don't expect the kind of happiness I had before but a sense of calm would be welcoming."
Apr 9
Angela replied to Angela's discussion Sudden loss
"I'm so sorry for your loss,  but thank-you for sharing.  I am stuck in the questioning phase right now.  Why? to a million different endings. Though I know I will in time to learn to live with this grief, I don't want to.…"
Apr 9
Angela replied to Angela's discussion Sudden loss
"It's completely unfair all the way around. I often wonder how some people get through life unscathed while others have to suffer tremendously. Nothing makes sense and even less so now."
Apr 8
Imogen replied to Angela's discussion Sudden loss
"Thank you Angela.  It is torture and it is the only way to describe it. I feel so bad for you only getting to share two years together.  Dealing with all that has been stolen from you must be awful.  From the women I talk to having…"
Apr 8
Angela replied to Angela's discussion Sudden loss
"There is no need to be sorry. Grief is torture. A living hell that will only end with the last breath. Never feel sorry for feelimg sad for your love lost. I feel low most of the time. Troy and i had so many plans for our future and now im left with…"
Apr 8
Imogen replied to Angela's discussion Sudden loss
"Hi Angela I so agree.It will be 4 years for me end of May.  I go along with my life, accepting this is it, I will probably be alone for the rest of my life.  But then some days, like today, I am just done.  I'm tired of this…"
Apr 8
Frank replied to Angela's discussion Sudden loss
"Hi Angela, I'd like to think that we are not the only two struggling to find a purpose in life. Susan was a diabetic.  When we first started dating, said "You know I'm a diabetic, and I said Yes.  She then asked me if I…"
Apr 4
Angela replied to Angela's discussion Sudden loss
"I wish my heart would catch up to my mind.  It struggles to believe any of this is real while my brain knows it to be true. It's maddening."
Apr 4
Angela replied to Angela's discussion Sudden loss
"Hi Frank, Thank-you.  I had that similar phone call.  I was waiting to here from Troy to tell me the puppies had been born but instead it was his mother calling me to tell me he passed away unexpectedly from a seizure in which his airway…"
Apr 4
SweetMelissa2007 replied to Angela's discussion Sudden loss
"My longing for Bob intensified whenever I saw couples w/young kids or those in their 40s, 50s, 60s, etc ... Families going camping or retirees in RVs or the newly widowed who w/their loved longer than Bob & myself - it all pretty much sucked. It…"
Apr 4
Frank replied to Angela's discussion Sudden loss
"Hi Angela, Welcome to our "Club." It's something none of us ever thought we would become members of.  This is one of the best places you could be.  Here you will read postings from folks just like yourself, awash in an…"
Apr 3
Callie2 replied to Angela's discussion Sudden loss
"Angela, I am so sorry for your recent loss. Time does help us heal but the hard part is dealing with the pain and sadness-- the grieving, which me must do first. Let the emotion flow, draining as it is that is what helps us heal. Be patient and good…"
Apr 2
Angela replied to Angela's discussion Sudden loss
"Finding the energy is the big one. I can only do so much before I am exhausted. I also feel I have more bad than good days. If I have a day that I feel I can manage things Ok, it's most definitely followed byba few really bad ones. It's…"
Apr 2
sandi replied to Angela's discussion Sudden loss
"Angela, I know how you feel.  I'm lost today.  It is so hard to find things to do in the winter.  I am so lonely and so tired of feeling lost.  The anxiety pills help, but it is a short term peace of mind.  How do we…"
Apr 2

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At 3:45pm on March 14, 2017, eliana said…

Welcome to Widville, Angela. I am truly sorry for your loss, and hope you find caring support and friendship here.

Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville. Take care of yourself.

 
 
 

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