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How is it possible 2 of my loved ones in 2 months, Now 3 in 5 months what the Hell is going onin my life?
Started this discussion. Last reply by barryanna Feb 13. 38 Replies 3 Likes
How is it possible to move on? I know i will for Dillon's sake (my17 yr old son) but how does it work out? I think of all the things that we all did an after losing Alex (19) and now Judy my wife of…Continue
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"So sorry for your loss, you will find that we get it here. I do understand that others want you to date and move on, but what they do not know is the depths of this loss. I to spent 1.3y life with my wife. Well its 5am and just could not sleep, as…"
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Mercyme- The Hurt & The Healer
"How true - "i'm alive, even though a part of me has died...where glory mets my suffering!!!!" Normally I enjoy videos with words so I can follow (sing) along but the pictures in this one were too much to pass on - thanks for…"
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"Arnie, thinking of you. praying for you. I am so sorry about your wife and your son."
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"i dont know why but the computer wont let me get on chat-----ive been on chat several times a few months ago! glad u know your son is in Heaven----maybe your wife accepted Jesus while in her coma! I was in a coma 23 years ago(car…"
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Arnie (New Normal) commented on SARose (MJ)'s blog post STUGs
"Stugs, I to get exactly how you feel. I lost my son at 19 but only 2 months later my wife died. It has been a year now as of Feb 1st but still no real relief. Life just was not supposed to be this way. At age 46 I lose my son, my wife and my dad all…"
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Money stress bringing grief right back to the beginning
Posted on February 5, 2013 at 2:39pm 7 Comments 1 Like
Well I am at one year plus since the loss of My wife Judy, and 19 year old son Alex. We did not have a perfect life but it was good enough to make us happy. We all loved each other, losing the 2 of them in 2 months really crushed me as well as Dillon my other son (18 now). Here i am sitting around after 47 yrs of being alive and went from a family of 4 to a family of 2, plus now Mom is here as Dad died only 2 months after my wife. I said I would take care of her and she will live with me…
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- At 6:13am on May 3, 2013,
Jpswife(Cathy) said… - Woke up. -- can't sleep--I'm praying for you Arnie
- At 7:36pm on March 1, 2013, Jpswife(Cathy) said…
i dont know why but the computer wont let me get on chat-----ive been on chat several times a few months ago! glad u know your son is in Heaven----maybe your wife accepted Jesus while in her coma! I was in a coma 23 years ago(car wreck)for 8 weeks and I remember hearing some things while in the hospital! :) Cathy
- At 6:56pm on March 1, 2013, Jpswife(Cathy) said…
hey Arnie do u have any idea how Widow Match works? cathy
- At 3:08pm on February 12, 2013,
Maggie said… Arnie, I am so sorry for both your losses. I have read your blog and I have put you on my prayer list. I don't always understand God's time frame, but I know from experience that He is NEVER late!!! God bless.
- At 1:40pm on February 12, 2013,
Beckie said… Hi Arnie,
Thank you for the friend invite :) hugs to you
- At 11:04pm on January 31, 2013,
Kimsmonkey (Patty) said… Hey Arnie.....thank you for today..............just trying to stay alive......know you understand
- At 4:53pm on January 28, 2013,
Dawn said… Hi arnie.. It was great talking with you... next time I'm gonna work on listening more and talking less.
- At 4:45pm on January 24, 2013,
Chrissie said… Hey Arnie, hope you are having a good day....did you go to the Olive Garden?
- At 3:10pm on January 9, 2013,
Cynthia said… Hey Arnie be strong ok take care
- At 12:15am on January 1, 2013,
jenco2244 (jen) said… Hope the movie was a good one. Happy New Year! Here's to a better 2013 for all of us.
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