"The travels without him have been a new experience. As he got more frail due to his health issues (and advancing age), I was always worried about whether there were too many steps where we were going, if he'd get too hot or too cold…"
thanks. I LOVE e.e. cummings and my husband Ron was an English Lit. major. I'd read that poem but not since his death. Six months out, I'm doing well- enjoying a new grandchild, took a 2500-mile road trip by myself over…"
"I haven't had anything other than appearances in a dream, and then only a couple of times in the first few months. I wouldn't mind more!
Last night, though, a huge thunderstorm blew up. Ron LOVED thunderstorms. He'd…"
"Yes, it's weird being a Party of One! What always hits me between the eyes is when I fill in surveys (I do a lot on e-Rewards to get Hilton points) and I have to check "Widowed" as my relationship status. It makes me feel…"
""Appalled" is an interesting choice of word! I'd say I felt surprised and still feel almost guilty, but I kind of like living alone. I was raised in a family of 5 kids, always shared a room with my sister, always squabbles…"
"I've been doing a decent job of clearing out DH's things- donating some, pitching some, selling on e-Bay, sending some to family and keeping those with sentimental value. This past week, though, I did a major pass through the house…"
"That doesn't sound good- did you stay hydrated? Did you eat occasionally? The rides I do always have stops with PB$J sandwiches, Gatorade, bananas, etc. I also bring a GU packet or two- little foil packs of glucose laced with…"
"I feel like that a lot and yes, I feel guilty except that I know that my husband would have wanted me to be happy after he was gone from this earth. The week before he died I booked a trip to Central America ( 5 months from then- we knew he…"
"A different "first" without DH. I haven't been able to get my bike (which he gave me in 2001) out on training rides because I'm afraid of what would happen if I got a flat. I can't calll DH anymore and ask him to…"
"My circumstances are somewhat different- I'm sure I'll hear from DS, as usual, but DH and I never made a big deal over Mother's Day. When we married, DS was 18 and DS' bio Dad was out of the picture following a messy…"
"What metal is the chain? You may have a nickel allergy. I can't wear white gold pierced earring for too long because of that. Mine is platinum but that's a budget- buster; stainless steel might work. (Anyone know if it includes nickel?).…"
"I live in the Midwest and it's just now starting to get warm and sunny on a regular basis. I had another of those "aha" moments about things I could change this week when I realized I hadn't turned on the A/C yet.…"
"The writer Penelope Leach once observed that different people like kids at different ages. I LOVE 2- and 3-year olds when they start talking, and my husband was much better with my son when he was in his difficult middle-school years. …"
"What a wonderful blog! I believe that open adoption is the best solution when a woman is faced with an unplanned pregnancy. Not everyone can handle it, but when it works it's beautiful.
My son is 32, married with 2 daughters- a…"
"A person after my own heart! DH and I had wonderful travels together. I just got back from Costa Rica and Panama, where I took a cruise through the canal and went snorkeling, kayaking, swimming and hiking in beautiful surroundings. I…"
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