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BJ Libra
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what's the meaning of life......

Started this discussion. Last reply by Callie2 Aug 9, 2017. 5 Replies

Saddest and darkness day.......today is the anniversary of my husband past away suddenly by heart attack.....just can't help myself stop crying......I miss him so so so much......We've married for 23…Continue

 

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Callie2 replied to BJ Libra's discussion what's the meaning of life......
"Loss tends to bring an array of questions to our mind. Initially, we focus on a lot of "ifs" as though somehow, we could have helped avoid the death of our loved one. I think we question a lot of things--whether we are believers or not--…"
Aug 9, 2017
laurajay replied to BJ Libra's discussion what's the meaning of life......
"BJLibra.   We can run to the very ends of the earth~ with  speed and determination.  We can choose new beginnings to our living conditions and work.  We can cast aside  old relationships that no longer  serve our…"
Aug 6, 2017
laurajay replied to BJ Libra's discussion what's the meaning of life......
"Well said, Sailor man.   You've made  good healing progress my friend,  I always remind myself that  God's omnipotence is beyond human understanding~and when  I want answers that elude me I am certain …"
Aug 6, 2017
Frank replied to BJ Libra's discussion what's the meaning of life......
"WOW! Thousands, possibly millions, of books have been written, and Philosophers have debated that question for as long as we humans could wonder.  I suspect that possibly every person that has been in a relationship (marriage) has hit the same…"
Aug 5, 2017
Athena53 replied to BJ Libra's discussion what's the meaning of life......
"I find my meaning in life from the people who would miss me if I were to leave this earth. My son and daughter-in-law would miss me and I wouldn't be able to be an influence in the lives of my grandchildren. My church community would miss…"
Aug 5, 2017
cloudwatcher replied to BJ Libra's discussion what's the meaning of life......
"I guess to help one other get through it somehow?  I am a recluse but active on several kinds of forums which are helpful to many people.  Maybe I should be out volunteering or helping others directly through work but don't feel up to…"
Aug 5, 2017
Imogen replied to BJ Libra's discussion what's the meaning of life......
"I am a christian so........... I believe we are put on this earth to worship God & tell other s about him.  The bible says He already knows before we are born what it going to happen to us.Them I become baffled because I have always…"
Aug 5, 2017
BJ Libra commented on Soaring Spirits's group Suddenly Widowed
"Thank you IBelieveInYou for the message. I escaped from home thousands miles away and temporary relocated in SC for business. I'm trying to rebuild a new life and hoped this is another me to start a new journey......but it's hard and I…"
Aug 5, 2017
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what's the meaning of life......

Saddest and darkness day.......today is the anniversary of my husband past away suddenly by heart attack.....just can't help myself stop crying......I miss him so so so much......We've married for 23 years and he left me alone on the earth! For the past year, I acted like a two-face person. I don’t want to have pitiful from others and pretend to be strong, on another side, I feel so depressed and often cry suddenly without any reason. I had the opportunity to relocate my work in SC for a while,…See More
Aug 4, 2017
BJ Libra commented on Soaring Spirits's group Suddenly Widowed
"It’s approaching the anniversary…… Aug 5th, 2016, the date changed my life completely. My husband past away suddenly by heart attack at home, without any signal…..We’ve married for 23 years and he left me along on…"
Aug 4, 2017
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Aug 4, 2017
Joyce left a comment for BJ Libra
"Welcome BJLibra: I'm sorry for your loss but I'm glad you found your way to this site. I hope you will find the same comfort and understanding here at Widowed Village that I have. In the beginning I just read the blogs and posts and…"
Jul 26, 2017

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God showed his mercy on me to offer the new life for me in US so to escape from the past.I'm newly baptized as the Roman Catholic.

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At 5:22am on July 26, 2017, Joyce said…

Welcome BJLibra: I'm sorry for your loss but I'm glad you found your way to this site. I hope you will find the same comfort and understanding here at Widowed Village that I have. In the beginning I just read the blogs and posts and lurked in chat.You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences.  Post and join in chat when you feel comfortable. It is nice to be among people who "Get It".

 
 
 

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