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Slightly Off Topic: In Laws Getting Remarried to Each Other

Started this discussion. Last reply by CrazyWidow Oct 15, 2013. 2 Replies

I need to vent, so thanks for letting me do so.  I've been REALLY fortunate with in my laws.  My LH mother was amazing.  His father died 2 weeks after LH and I began chatting online.  My MIL lives in…Continue

Tug and Pull from Past to Present

Started this discussion. Last reply by CrazyWidow Apr 24, 2013. 2 Replies

This Friday I will be getting re-married.  As I approach year 5 (wow) of losing Kevin, I'm struggling with the balance of remembering him, mourning him, honoring him, but yet allowing for the honor…Continue

Rings and Remarriage

Started this discussion. Last reply by Dianne in Nevada Jan 30, 2013. 10 Replies

I am getting married on April 5th of this year.  My fiance has been divorced and will be putting his old wedding ring towards the cost of our bands. I have meant to do something with my and Kevin's…Continue

Have you Increased or Decreased Risk in your Life?

Started this discussion. Last reply by CrazyWidow Mar 30, 2012. 7 Replies

Since the death of your spouse have you increased or decreased the amount of risk in your life?Continue


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Posted on October 16, 2013 at 7:26am 4 Comments

I'm approaching the 5 year sadversary since Kevin died.  I knew that this significant amount of time would probably have a great affect on me.  I also knew that running my Kickstarter campaign to raise funds to publish our love and loss memoir and having it end on that 5 year sadversary would trigger things.  I prepared myself as much as possible by cheering myself on, but I didn't think much beyond that.

Last night I had a date night with NH and I felt myself pushing away…


The Smell of Hockey

Posted on October 7, 2013 at 4:50pm 0 Comments

Posted 10/7 on my blog,

I toured a nice hockey facility in Annville today for my daytime job, and in the locker room, the stench hit me.  Sweat.  Sweaty gear smell.  Hockey stench.  Kevin.

Just a couple of months after Kevin died, I went through his hockey gear bag and the stench flashed me back to another time.  Smell has still been one of the…


Sharing too Publicy

Posted on August 21, 2013 at 9:44am 6 Comments

I have  a fairly public blog where I used to share every intimate detail of widowhood.  Now I'm terrified to do so.

I started after was no longer made for 2...I began documenting everything I was going through.  In the past year I renamed it to be more about my life in general, not just widowhood.  But now, especially after remarriage, I feel terrified to share about widowhood on my blog.  I think it mostly has to do with…


Twas the Day Before Christmas...For the Grieving

Posted on December 24, 2012 at 6:02am 3 Comments

I wrote this for me, and for you, this Christmas season.

Twas the Day Before Christmas...For the Grieving

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Thanks, I look forward to meeting you in Tampa. I'm Sonja
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At 6:17pm on June 10, 2012, Enjoyn'Life1950 said…

Yes, I never thought I would be on a site such as this, but life does not always turn out as we would like it to.

I actually started a meetup group in Portland, Oregon called Portland Area Widowed Singles 50+, for those of us over 50 who are widowed.  I started it last year and now have 60 members, of course waaaaaay more women than men, but I think men have aversions to joining groups..  Anyway, this group has been a great source of support but I am always looking for new friends, new ideas on meeting subjects, meeting places, etc.

I have been a widow since April 9,2008 - how about you?

At 5:06pm on May 20, 2012, Dianne in Nevada said…

Hope it's been a fabulous day. Happy Birthday, Brenda!

At 11:04pm on May 7, 2012, Greggies Widow said…

Love ya !

At 4:25pm on May 6, 2012, BrittneyR said…

Thanks for the welcome! Glad to find a place where others understand the journey I'm on.

At 2:03pm on May 6, 2012, Jeanine said…

Yep.... I found the information...  looks interesting!


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