"So much changes after loss. What we think, how we feel. Our complete existence changes.
I feel that I only know what I know. i didn't get to say goodbye to my husband. Then I think " how could I have ever been able to say goodbye to that…"
"My husband had been riding for years. Knew the area well. He wasn't a risk taker but let's face it. I guess it is a risky sport. It took the love of my life away from me.
I'm so glad our kids don't ride. They never loved it like…"
"I think we all need to be kinder to ourselves. Your garden will be beautiful!!!
Sounds like so much love will be blooming there. I've tried to ask myself what David would be telling me to do. I know he wouldn't want Me to be so sad. Easier…"
"Quiet day of reflection today. It's been raining all day.
I think tomorrow I'll need to get out of the house for a while.
It sure is lonely without David here.
How is everyone else honking up with spring on the horizon?
A time for new…"
"That is quite the shack. I'll be getting on s plane.
Bobmac, well done!!!
Hmmmm a few days with people who will completely understand me!!!!
What couid be more healing!
You let me know and I'll do all I can at my end."
"That's a tuff one. I don't want to be alone for the rest Of my life.
I don't want to allow anyone else in either. I believe my husband would speak like the gentleman in Dear Abbey.
Just like everything else, I'll follow my path…"
"I too felt very much the same way as all of you so early into this journey. It is the hardest thing I have ever had to endure without a doubt.
Over a year and on my way. Most days. I still have days that it hits me in the gut and takes my breath…"
"Thank goodness your so talented. I'm looking forward to seeing where we might be going. You just never know.
Stupid Valentines Day!!!!
My girlfriend is coming for the weekend. We plan on staying in our jammies, eating chips, chocolate and…"
"Hahaha ok ok I am a really big complainer.
My husband and I were supposed to be moving to Russia last September. That was the big joke in our house. That I Would never be able to leave the building. Ever!!!
My husband worked there on and off. Our…"
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