"Hello all, I think at this point (for me 20 months) it's the lonliness and just missing Risa. The way we talked to each other, the looks, the smiles ,our plans. I agree with you guys the 2nd year was worse but diffrent the the first."
"I just could never imagine watching your loved one pass from cancer.Im so sorry for you and your wife. My dear husband of 16 years died of a heart attack oct 6 2012. Im newly widowed and still in shock and denial,, I feel so all alone and…"
"'Thanks guys. We both knew the reality it just it came faster the we expected. I do feel that we we 'dismissed'' at the end by both her oncologists. I don't ever want to see them again, and avoid them when I see them.…"
"Hello all. I 'm sorry any of us are here. For me its 15 months now. I've hated almost every minute of it. Risa and I were togeather since college, and the 29th would have been 38 years. Some how it seems worse this…"
I just could never imagine watching your loved one pass from cancer.Im so sorry for you and your wife. My dear husband of 16 years died of a heart attack oct 6 2012. Im newly widowed and still in shock and denial,, I feel so all alone and experiencing more pain than I ever imagined, it was so sudden, he was so healthy,, crazy.. one day at a time, I keep getting told...
Welcome Barry. I am so sorry for your loss and the reason you are here. I am glad that you found us. Read the blogs, check out the forums and different groups, and when you are comfortable join us in chat sometime. The people here are caring, wonderful and get it. Sent you a friend request, if you have any questions please let me know.
Glad you got to do the event at Arnie's and meet several of the members here.
Welcome Barry: I'm sorry for your loss but I'm glad you found your way to this site. I hope you will find the same comfort and understanding here at Widowed Village that I have. In the beginning I just read the blogs and posts and lurked in chat. Post and join us in chat when you feel comfortable. It is nice to be among people who "Get It".
Barry, it was nice meeting you on Saturday and glad to see you joined us here at Widowed Village. Talk to you soon.
Barry, welcome. I am sorry for your loss. I hope you are able to find the support and friendship here to guide you through your journey. This site has helped me so much, I hope it will help you as well.
Hi Barry, I just wanted to welcome you to the group...the support I have received since joining this site has helped me enormously on my journey. I started by reading blogs, posts, joining groups and watching chat. Feel free to jump in anytime...sometimes there's a bit of nonsense going on but when someone comes in need they are surrounded by care and concern.
I'm sorry for your loss, Barry, but glad you found us. There is caring support and friendship here. Here's a good place to start: Basic Site Info
Join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place. Those 'chirps' you hear when you're in Widowed Village mean people are talking in the Chat Room; stop in some time and join the conversations. I look forward to getting to know you here.