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Barry
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  • Bedminster, NJ
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Barry's Friends

  • Karen
  • recent loss(Ron)
  • bj628(Bonnie)
  • Emy
  • janet
  • Brian in Ohio
  • Arnie (New Normal)
  • Joyce
  • jen
  • fredb 62
  • Love2stage
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  • Kaye (Nextstep11)
  • Ace
  • Kim
 

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Barry and Ace are now friends
Apr 2
Barry and Kim are now friends
Feb 21
Barry commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"Happy Valentine's Day to all the lovely ladies at this site. i'll be thinking of you all today.  x's and o's and have a great day"
Feb 14
Barry commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"Hello all, I think at this point (for me 20 months) it's the lonliness and just missing Risa. The way we talked to each other, the looks, the smiles ,our plans. I agree with you guys the 2nd year was worse but diffrent the the first."
Feb 3
Barry commented on recent loss(Ron)'s event Lori and Ron's wedding
"Ron and Lori  congrats and all the best!  I wish you a long and happy life together."
Jan 31
Barry and Kaye (Nextstep11) are now friends
Jan 31
Barry and Love2stage are now friends
Jan 22
Love2stage left a comment for Barry
"Barry I too would listen to Vern's messages. I have an IPhone and took it to the Apple Store. They downloaded them onto a CD for me so I wouldn't lose them and could listen to them anytime."
Jan 18
Karen and Barry are now friends
Oct 23, 2012
cher1010 left a comment for Barry
"I just could never imagine watching your loved one pass from cancer.Im so sorry for you and your wife.  My dear husband of 16 years died of a heart attack oct 6 2012. Im newly widowed and still in shock and denial,, I feel so all alone and…"
Oct 20, 2012
Barry and bj628(Bonnie) are now friends
Oct 17, 2012
Barry and fredb 62 are now friends
Oct 7, 2012
Barry commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"I thought I was the only one who called to listen the cell phone greetings. I still haven't turned turned Risa's phone off.  16 months out, I don't know if I can."
Oct 4, 2012
Barry commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Long-term illness
"'Thanks guys. We both knew the reality it just it came faster the we expected. I do feel that we we 'dismissed'' at the end by both her oncologists. I don't  ever want to see them again, and avoid them when I see them.…"
Sep 27, 2012
Barry commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Long-term illness
"Hello all. I 'm sorry any of us are here. For me its 15 months now.  I've hated almost every minute of it. Risa and I were togeather since college, and  the 29th would have  been 38 years.  Some how it seems worse this…"
Sep 27, 2012
Barry commented on Emy's blog post Florida Bound
"Emy, I hope you have an easy and safe trip. Best of everything to you."
Sep 25, 2012

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At 11:57am on January 18, 2013, Love2stage said…
Barry I too would listen to Vern's messages. I have an IPhone and took it to the Apple Store. They downloaded them onto a CD for me so I wouldn't lose them and could listen to them anytime.
At 11:19pm on October 20, 2012, cher1010 said…

I just could never imagine watching your loved one pass from cancer.Im so sorry for you and your wife.  My dear husband of 16 years died of a heart attack oct 6 2012. Im newly widowed and still in shock and denial,, I feel so all alone and experiencing more pain than I ever imagined, it was so sudden, he was so healthy,, crazy.. one day at a time, I keep getting told... 

At 9:23pm on September 19, 2012, bj628(Bonnie) said…

Barry, I am so sorry for your loss, I lost my husband 6/28/11.  I am gad you found your way here to this site, It is where you will find, warmth, caring and real understanding.

Chat is great.. a really nice way to make connections and meet others.

At 8:10pm on September 18, 2012, janet said…

Welcome Barry.  I am so sorry for your loss and the reason you are here.  I am glad that you found us.  Read the blogs, check out the forums and different groups, and when you are comfortable join us in chat sometime.  The people here are caring, wonderful and get it.  Sent you a friend request, if you have any questions please let me know.

Glad you got to do the event at Arnie's and meet several of the members here.

At 10:40pm on September 11, 2012, Joyce said…

Welcome Barry: I'm sorry for your loss but I'm glad you found your way to this site. I hope you will find the same comfort and understanding here at Widowed Village that I have. In the beginning I just read the blogs and posts and lurked in chat. Post and join us in chat when you feel comfortable. It is nice to be among people who "Get It".

Barry, it was nice meeting you on Saturday and glad to see you joined us here at Widowed Village.  Talk to you soon.

At 11:57am on September 10, 2012, kimkirt (KK) said…

Barry, welcome. I am sorry for your loss. I hope you are able to find the support and friendship here to guide you through your journey. This site has helped me so much, I hope it will help you as well. 

At 6:20am on September 10, 2012, chez2all said…

Hi Barry, I just wanted to welcome you to the group...the support I have received since joining this site has helped me enormously on my journey.  I started by reading blogs, posts, joining groups and watching chat.  Feel free to jump in anytime...sometimes there's a bit of nonsense going on but when someone comes in need they are surrounded by care and concern.

At 1:12am on September 10, 2012, Dianne in Nevada said…

I'm sorry for your loss, Barry, but glad you found us. There is caring support and friendship here. Here's a good place to start: Basic Site Info

Join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.  Those 'chirps' you hear when you're in Widowed Village mean people are talking in the Chat Room; stop in some time and join the conversations.  I look forward to getting to know you here.

 
 
 

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