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Barzan
  • Female
  • Arvada, CO
  • United States
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Barzan commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Dear Friends, After such a long stretch of time of not dreaming of my sweet love, he showed up during the night and kissed me several times.  I woke this morning feeling comforted.  I was resigned to the fact that my dreams would be void…"
Friday
Barzan commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Dearest Riet,  Glad to hear that your knee replacement went well and you have the support you need.  I, too, had the same reaction after my surgery.  My husband and I always looked after one another and now we have to ask and rely on…"
Wednesday
Barzan replied to Jim's discussion Just an introduction in the group Born in the 50s
"Hi Jim, For what it's worth, I'm glad you found us.  Here, you are free to vent, share or just read posts.  I am terribly sorry for your loss and the pain that is now what you have left.  It's been 8 years for me and,…"
Nov 12
Barzan commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"KJPE,  I was struck by your post.  I hadn’t really given it much thought before, but it is so true that we are no one’s #1 any longer.  I’ve had been dealing with health issues for a few months now and find it so…"
Nov 10
Barzan commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Oh Tekwriter, I am so sorry.  There just are no words.  I hope you have family and/or friends there with you.  Sending you big hugs and prayers. Suzan"
Nov 4
Barzan replied to Butleri62's discussion Sleep in the group Born in the 50s
"Butleri62,  I’d like to start by saying I’m so sorry for the loss of your beloved wife.  I know your pain and grief are beyond words. i use Melatonin gummies to helm me sleep.   Another product that works great is CBD oil.…"
Oct 30
Barzan commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Tekwriter, I want to wish you a happy birthday.  Yes, it's certainly not the same without our mate.  Nothing us.  We just have to figure it out as we progress down this path we didn't choose.  My brother was going to…"
Oct 28
Barzan commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Comment by Barzan 14 hours ago It’s the 8th year of me dreading holidays.  Primarily Thanksgiving.  My son will be with his wife’s family this year and my brother’s wife likes to stir up sh**.   I introduced her to…"
Oct 27
Barzan commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"It’s the 8th year of me dreading holidays.  Primarily Thanksgiving.  My son will be with his wife’s family this year and my brother’s wife likes to stir up sh**.   I introduced her to my brother and for that I will…"
Oct 26
Barzan commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Jules, my girlfriend and I are going on a cruise next fall.  Maybe you’d like to go and that way you’d have someone you know on the ship."
Oct 9
Barzan commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Jules, there are lots of cruises that are 3-5 days which have solo traveler cabins.  Norwegian is my favorite.  You wouldn’t be the only one doing this.  I know a number of singles that do and love it.  Just a thought."
Oct 8
Barzan commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"IrishLady,  I adopted my cat from a shelter that was doing one of its senior discount weekends.  He was the best $25 I ever spent.  Call the local shelters in your area and I bet you’ll find the perfect pet at 5he perfect fee.…"
Oct 8
Barzan commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Oh the dreaded holidays!  While my husband was still alive, we hosted some Thanksgiving dinners but we didn't care if we had an invitation to other family member's houses because we were quite happy to just spend it by…"
Oct 8
Barzan commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Dear Riet, The 1st time I had to do one of my husband’s tasks, I did it thru a veil of tears.  It wasn’t because I wasn’t capable but because he wasn’t here to do it.  After 8 years of doing, I just do it and think…"
Oct 2
Barzan replied to Mary's discussion Just mad at the world today in the group Born in the 50s
"Hi Mary,  I just read your post and want you to know that’s why we’re all here.  The world is to preoccupied for our ups and downs.  I think of this site as my support family.  I’ve given up long ago to reach…"
Oct 1
Barzan commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Tekwritek,  When I retired, my husband had been gone 5 years.  I had been designing jewelry and an artist all through my adult life so finding a volunteer gig was fairly easy.  I volunteer at the performing arts center in my…"
Sep 27

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I am recently retired from a very demanding profession and am still learning how to be retired. I keep busy with my jewelry designing, sewing and art. I will be volunteering at our history and science museum. I love the arts, gardening and travel.

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At 2:32pm on May 10, 2016, sweetlady said…
  • i  am a widow much longer than u douhave children are they closewithuthathurtsidontknowhow olduare but thetimegoesby very quickly auditsashamewhenu are at odds with ur own flesh and blood  cant go to him as i am worried he will start with me and at this point i just  cant take it.im not retired as u  have to work maybe that keeps me going but not haooyas i should be  hope we can be friends.elaine
At 6:38pm on March 15, 2016, Joyce said…

Welcome Barzan: I'm sorry for your loss but I'm glad you found your way to this site. I hope you will find the same comfort and understanding here at Widowed Village that I have. In the beginning I just read the blogs and posts and lurked in chat.You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences.  Post and join in chat when you feel comfortable. It is nice to be among people who "Get It" 

 
 
 

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