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Barzan
  • Female
  • Arvada, CO
  • United States
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  • Slick
  • Frank
  • sweetlady
  • Joyce
 

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Barzan commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2011
"I get it!  With my family get togethers, they avoid mentioning my late husband thinking that it will make me feel better when it really just makes it worse.  I want to affirm his existence.  I think people just do what they think is…"
Nov 15
Barzan commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2011
"Thanks Slick and Chef.  I try to let it not bother me but it doesn't work some of the time.  I appreciate your support.  Good to have this place to vent and support one another."
Nov 15
Barzan commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2011
"Hello Everyone, The dreaded holidays are here again.  Not every year but I have to share my only grown child and his family with his inlaws.  My only sibling and his family are also spending Thanksgiving with his inlaws.  I had…"
Nov 14
Barzan commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Seashell, so glad my words were helpful.  We are all here to help one another get through our days as best as we can.  My husband has been gone "physically" for over 6 years but "spiritually" is with me all the…"
Oct 23
Barzan commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Mary. Irish Lady and Slick, I'm not one to pass out advice but having read all your posts this past week, I decided to chime in.   I have a great relationship with the kids and one of the things I do and have always done was to praise…"
Oct 21
Barzan commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2011
"Cee, Celebrate him.  I hope the day will be filled with more love than sadness.  "
Oct 12
Barzan commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Faolan and Barbee - I'm with you.  I try to watch mostly comedic or romcoms for the same reason.  I need to keep my mood boosted with laughter and happy endings.  There is so much drama and horrific things happening around us…"
Oct 11
Barzan commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Because it will be coming on my smart tv, is there additional cost? I definitely need to find entertaining shows to keep my from watching all the news programs. They just get me down. My friend says I'll have to take anger management classes if…"
Oct 10
Barzan replied to Susan's discussion I'm A Grandma!!! in the group Born in the 50s
"Congratulations Grandma! I love being a grandma."
Oct 8
Barzan commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2011
"Princess.  Too bad we can't post pictures on here.  It would be so nice to see pictures of happy beginnings.  Not implying that it would not continue that way.  LOL LucyGoo,  That is wonderful for both you and your…"
Sep 28
Barzan commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Don,  If "Google" message asked you to follow a link and change your email and password, it was a phishing scam to steal you password and access your computer.  If you followed that link and did change your password, it is very…"
Sep 28
Barzan commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2011
"Hi Chef, I've given your comment some thought and remember loving winter when I was younger and still skied. Now I love the warm sun on my skin while I sit on the patio reading. Must have turned a new chapter. No, I don't find it odd that…"
Sep 23
Barzan commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2011
"Princess, That is wonderful.  Enjoy and celebrate.  Congratulations."
Sep 22
Barzan commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2011
"Thanks Chef John and Princess.  It's good to be home again.  Today is the 1st day of fall and not my favorite season.  I do love the colors but sad to see leaves fall making the trees look so barren.  It's kind of like…"
Sep 22

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I am recently retired from a very demanding profession and am still learning how to be retired. I keep busy with my jewelry designing, sewing and art. I will be volunteering at our history and science museum. I love the arts, gardening and travel.

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At 5:17am on June 22, 2017, Slick said…

Hi Barzan...my name is Angela...everyone calls me Angel..going to give you one of my e-mail addresses ....if that's OK with you....that's how I communicate with 2 friends from here...it's so much easier then coming on the site....

[email protected] let's get aquainted and learn a little more about each other..

At 2:32pm on May 10, 2016, sweetlady said…
  • i  am a widow much longer than u douhave children are they closewithuthathurtsidontknowhow olduare but thetimegoesby very quickly auditsashamewhenu are at odds with ur own flesh and blood  cant go to him as i am worried he will start with me and at this point i just  cant take it.im not retired as u  have to work maybe that keeps me going but not haooyas i should be  hope we can be friends.elaine
At 6:38pm on March 15, 2016, Joyce said…

Welcome Barzan: I'm sorry for your loss but I'm glad you found your way to this site. I hope you will find the same comfort and understanding here at Widowed Village that I have. In the beginning I just read the blogs and posts and lurked in chat.You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences.  Post and join in chat when you feel comfortable. It is nice to be among people who "Get It" 

 
 
 

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