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Bibbys1960
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Bereavement

Started this discussion. Last reply by Callie2 Dec 30, 2017. 3 Replies

Hi. Every one.my sole mate of 44 years took his own life, leaving a note saying his disability was getting worse, and he did not want to be a burden.No one saw this coming, it has left me even now…Continue

 

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Callie2 replied to Bibbys1960's discussion Bereavement
"I'm so sorry for your loss. Dealing with a suicide is almost in a category of it's own, I can understand why you feel traumatized. Are there any support groups in your area for suicide survivors? There is no set time limit on grieving--it…"
Dec 30, 2017
Bibbys1960 replied to Bibbys1960's discussion Bereavement
"Many thanks x"
Dec 30, 2017
Lupe's husband replied to Bibbys1960's discussion Bereavement
"hugs to you Bibbys"
Dec 30, 2017
Bibbys1960 replied to Jill's discussion How old were you when your spouse died? How does your age affect your self-concept now that you're on your own?
"Hi. I too am 64, and even if I say so my self still fit and young in my head. my bereavement is different in so much as my dear sole mate of 44 years, walked out one day and never came back, 4 hours later the police came to tell me he had been found…"
Dec 30, 2017
Bibbys1960 posted a discussion

Bereavement

Hi. Every one.my sole mate of 44 years took his own life, leaving a note saying his disability was getting worse, and he did not want to be a burden.No one saw this coming, it has left me even now after 3 years lost and traumatised.i have been flying around trying to fill this huge empty black hole with anything I could manage....family, friends old and new, volunteer work.care work.dancing.but as I have read on the forum I too have days were I am so tired of the effort of carrying on, my…See More
Dec 29, 2017
Bibbys1960 replied to Jill's discussion How old were you when your spouse died? How does your age affect your self-concept now that you're on your own?
"Hi. What you described is just how I feel. its 3 years now since my sole mate of 44 yrs died, it was sudden and so unexpected, I was left traumatised  i have tried so hard to fill that huge black empty hole, with family, friends, volunteer…"
Dec 29, 2017

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Suicide of your life time partner is so hard to take in-To know that your grief is shared by others, and you are not going mad !

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