"Gordy's Widow: I did the same. I did it many more times. Then one day, I was home alone ... and I yelled at his picture and cried really hard; why are you never coming back!; YOU ARE never coming back; YOU ARE NEVER EVER…"
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BillsWife35 Terri commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Born in the 50s
"Most definitively write her the most hateful letter, letting all your anger out. Forgive her in the letter too. Then BURN it. Make a nice ceremony in burning it. These kinds of actions will really help you let go of her…"
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BillsWife35 Terri commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Born in the 50s
"Whoa. Guess I needed to have something to say. But I have to go back to work now.
Everyone I love to ready your comments. You all really understand. And I really understand you! Love and Blessings Always."
BillsWife35 Terri commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Born in the 50s
"I have only gotten rid of his regular jeans and some pants. Some shirts. I kept a lot of his t-shirts and will someday make a quilt orhave someone do it for me. Maybe two or three for me and my two kids. I got rid of his…"
BillsWife35 Terri replied to cindy292's discussion The Effect of Pets
"Paul: I'm sure your vet will advise you well. If you trust your vet, he will have the best interest of your kitty in his advice for her care. If they give you the worst news, please remember Eli's good life. I know it…"
BillsWife35 Terri replied to cindy292's discussion The Effect of Pets
"Go for it. As long as you feed them, THEY will not let you get down. If you can afford two, get them! 7 months after my hubby died, our second old kitty died. I had a list a mile long for new guys. So I babysat a couple…"
BillsWife35 Terri commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Born in the 50s
"Dear Su:
I would try and hire has much help as you can for now. If your neighbor has more to say ask him if he will do it at a better price or if he can recommend someone else, otherwise tell him "helpful suggestions would be…"
BillsWife35 Terri commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Born in the 50s
"It has been 19 months. It is better at times. More times. I have accepted, his loss will always be hard. But I will continue to remind myself. He never liked to see my cry. He loved my smile. I am always…"
BillsWife35 Terri replied to cindy292's discussion The Effect of Pets
"I know our pets are very precious during our seasons of grief. We had two cats; spooky and KC. Spooky died right before my husband was diagnosed and KC passed 7 mos after him. It was really hard losing them both. I was so…"
BillsWife35 Terri commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Born in the 50s
"I have been reading so many comments. It is really nice to hear that we are so many and that we all "get it". It has been 18 months now after 35 years. I can even imagine being with another man. But I know my husband…"
BillsWife35 Terri commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Born in the 50s
"Grace, I see you are in a similar situation. - sort of. I say celebrate - it is what you husband would want you to. Cry, because that is how you feel! I found myself laughing and crying at the same time yesterday. Very…"
BillsWife35 Terri commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Born in the 50s
"Cathy, I too wonder why my father, 81 yrs, survied and not my hubby, 60 years. His 61st bday was hard, but I got family together to celebrate. We all celebrated our bdays, and especially mine and my hubby. My Bday is 9/13 and the…"
BillsWife35 Terri commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Born in the 50s
"Thank you Mary 99. Your words were very good for me to read/hear first thing this AM. Having a clue, by others like yourself sharing is good. I know we are all different, but we do share alot.
thank you."
BillsWife35 Terri commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Born in the 50s
"Really don't want to be envious. Once said, I can try and let it go :).
I understand we don't want our children to get married sooner than it's time. I just know it will be hard."
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- At 4:46pm on January 26, 2012,
VOLUNTEERSupa Dupa Fresh said… Welcome to our community.... I hope we can keep you company on your journey ahead. Please look around a bit and read this basic introduction to the site. You can find more information about how the community works under "Help!" in the navigation bar, and we'll send you a few newsletters with tips and ideas in the coming weeks.
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- At 8:51pm on January 24, 2012,
Lisa (lost) Lamb said…
Welcome BillsWife! I'm so sorry for the loss that brought you here, but glad you've found us. This journey that none of us wanted to be on is a hard one, but traveling along side others that understand helps in ways none of us knew about. I hope you will find peace and comfort here on your healing journey.
- At 3:58pm on January 22, 2012,
Dianne in Nevada said… 
I'm so very sorry for your loss, BillsWife, but glad you found us. There is caring support and friendship here. Join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place. Those 'chirps' you hear when you're in Widowed Village mean people are talking in the Chat Room; stop in some time and join the conversations. I look forward to getting to know you here.
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