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lulu74 replied to BlueRoses's discussion Walking the line tonight in the group Suddenly Widowed
"It's beautiful how you express your love and grief for your  sailor. I also feel the weight of that unspent love.... So many dreams and plans together, watching each other become older. I am 41 and my love was 43. We said goodbye one…"
May 15, 2019
BlueRoses replied to BlueRoses's discussion Walking the line tonight in the group Suddenly Widowed
"Thank you.  for this sweet reply. It is definitely exhausting trying to figure out life without him. Blessings to you on your journey."
May 15, 2019
going.on.slowly replied to BlueRoses's discussion Walking the line tonight in the group Suddenly Widowed
"So heartbreakingly beautiful.  I, too, had a great love and an anchor and a soft place to fall. And he went out one day and didn't return to me alive and I have felt untethered and adrift since.  I like how you connect that having the…"
May 15, 2019
BlueRoses added a discussion to the group Suddenly Widowed

Walking the line tonight

The line between what is and what was. It is more of a tightrope, that often at this hour starts to fray. My sailor, soared last August. He was a young, bright, tenacious man, who left this planet at 40. I am 41 and still trying to figure out how to navigate this life without him.  What was, was beautiful, because he stepped in and showed me what love was. What was, was trusting, because despite our struggles, the strength of his embrace always made everything okay. He was my husband, my love,…See More
May 14, 2019

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At 11:05am on February 19, 2019, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, BlueRoses. I'm so sorry for your loss, but pleased you found us. You’ll find caring support and friendship here.

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