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Today I took a tour bus to Greektown Casino in Detroit just to get away for awhile, Little Esther use to love going there and sometimes we stayed overnight, it was on her bucket list at the end, we had a room reserved but we didn't make it.
Anyway the blog is about a couple on the bus that I had the displeasure of sitting behind. He was loud and a bully to his wife, she was quiet and submissive to her husband what a match made in He!! I rode all the way in silence and moved to…Continue
I am sure some of you have asked yourself this question.
Here I am going on twenty five months since Little Esther left this earth and I find myself still asking, today I finally reached a truthful answer.
The answer is no, I didn't force the issue with the doctors in the early stages and I feel that her life may have been saved if I had just taken the initiative and not allowed the doctors to dictate the decisions that were made. My wife was the type of patient that had total…Continue
When my children were little we were all in the car and a really bad storm was all around us, the kids were in panic mode so I said "Don't get scared unless you see me get scared". My wife and kids remembered that and they use to say, watch dad to see if its time to get scared yet, if anything was going on.
When Little Esther was near death she looked me in the eye and said "I won't get scared about dying unless I see you get scared", so I had to stay strong for her all the way to…Continue
I was at the grocery store and I heard a voice behind me ask that question, I turned and it was a couple that we knew that had moved to Florida. I smiled, choked for a second and then explained about Esther, they said they were sorry and then they were gone.
On the way home I thought about my losing my ( Better Half) and I realized that was really true, she was the best of me/us in so many ways.
My question now is - how do we get whole again, do we have to find a facsimile…Continue