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Bobbysgirl
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  • Fort Lauderdale, FL
  • United States
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Bobbysgirl commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2013
"In my experience I have come to the conclusion that judgemental people are afraid of people who are different. They live in a very narrow world. I have been fortunate since childhood to being exposed to different people. I am not a religious person…"
Nov 14
Bobbysgirl commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Maggie, kindness and inclusiveness are the perfect words. This world would be a paradise is more people practiced it."
Sep 19
Bobbysgirl commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Beloved Peach, I agree with MFARM. I am 78, my sons are in their 50s. My friends ages range from mid forties to 106. Some are widowed,some divorced, some couples. Here at WV we share the same painful bond, and the need to express our pain. Peace to…"
Sep 19
Bobbysgirl commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2013
"I was very fortunate no interior damage, did not lose utilities. Cleanup outside. My son had to evacuate and stayed at my house until his utilities were restored. We experienced 120 mph winds and it was scary.I feel badly for people who had 185 mph…"
Sep 15
Bobbysgirl commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2013
"Two months ago was the anniversary of Bob's passing. I am also more at peace. I live in Ft. Lauderdale and after going through hurricane Irma I realized I could handle tough situations. I am feeling stronger and more confident in myself. Peace…"
Sep 15
Bobbysgirl replied to Gunnerx2's discussion Strength
"Gunnerx2 very happy to hear that all is well with you. Peace."
Sep 12
Bobbysgirl replied to Gunnerx2's discussion Strength
"Gunnerx2 I hope all is well with you. I did not have any house damage and did not lose my utilities. Feeling very fortunate. Be careful when cleaning up debris and stay safe. Peace."
Sep 11
Bobbysgirl replied to Gunnerx2's discussion Strength
"I am in the Ft. Lauderdale area and the bands of Irma are over us now. I decided not to evacuate. My son and his wife were in an evacuation area and they are staying at my house.I was afraid of being caught on the highway. There are no hotel rooms…"
Sep 9
Bobbysgirl replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion When did you remove your wedding rings?
"Bob has been gone 4 years and I still wear a wedding ring. I have been on the habit of removing my rings and watch when I get home. Several months ago when I reached into the drawer to get my rings Without looking I picked up Bob's wedding…"
Aug 2
Bobbysgirl replied to only1sue's discussion What are the fundamentals of dating in your 60s and 70s?
"I have heard so many stories like this, that I am positive I would never date. I am fortunate that I have good family relationships and have a comfortable lifestyle. I have found that most people in our age group have a lot of baggage and I have no…"
Jul 8
Bobbysgirl replied to Rich's discussion Would you do it again?
"No hesitation I would do it all over again. July 5 will be four years since I lost Bob. The first two years were very difficult. Now I spend more time thinking about all the good times we shared. Peace to all."
Jun 18
Bobbysgirl replied to Jill's discussion How old were you when your spouse died? How does your age affect your self-concept now that you're on your own?
"Callie2, your words to be comfortable in our own skin really hit home with me. I guess I am able to adjust to my pain by accepting my reality. I miss Bob everyday, but I rarely cry now. Bob is gone almost 4 years, and I have worked very hard to…"
May 8
Bobbysgirl replied to Jill's discussion How old were you when your spouse died? How does your age affect your self-concept now that you're on your own?
"I also still feel married to Bob. We were together for almost 58 years, married for 53 years. Bob died July 5 2013. The last few years of his life were difficult but before that we had a very good life.I still wear my wedding ring of my left hand…"
Apr 14
Bobbysgirl replied to only1sue's discussion What are the fundamentals of dating in your 60s and 70s?
"Athena, I feel exactly the way you do. I miss Bob everyday and I realize that no one else could replace him. I have met several nice men, but have no desire to be anything more than friends with them. I guess I have adjusted to my situation. Peace…"
Apr 7
Bobbysgirl replied to audreypellicano's discussion Healthy Living After Loss
"I often cook for 2 and freeze half and eat it within 2 weeks. I like fish and I often buy frozen portion bags. I used to get in a rut eating the same foods so using the portioned food gives me a lot more variety and it is very convenient."
Mar 11
Bobbysgirl replied to audreypellicano's discussion Healthy Living After Loss
"I also like "alone time" and I clean a lot. When Bob was well he always helped with the cleaning. I keep things the same way, including the many pictures, books and knickknacks. I guess I have not fully let go of our past life. Before I go…"
Mar 10

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At 8:07am on August 23, 2015, Denise said…
Hello Bobbysgirl,
Sad that we meet under such circumstances .But then we meet ,two strangers with similar lives.
Pl keep in touch
At 10:20pm on June 29, 2015, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, Bobbysgirl. I'm so very sorry for your loss, but pleased that you found us. You'll find caring support and friendship here.

Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville.

 
 
 

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