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Husband died just 1 week ago

Started this discussion. Last reply by ncaru001 Oct 15. 7 Replies

I'm in so much pain mentally and physically. I am so confused. My husband (39) died just 1 week ago. We were married 11 yrs. Devastation is a word that barely scratches the surface of what I'm…Continue

 

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ncaru001 replied to Booklvr's discussion Husband died just 1 week ago
"Booklvr, So sorry for your loss. I too recently lost my husband of 14 yrs 1.5 months ago, he was 34 yrs old. It was truly a shock! Something we can't even comprehend. Took some time off work to take care of things. But when things started…"
Oct 15
devonsvoice replied to Booklvr's discussion Husband died just 1 week ago
"I can relate to the idea of not wanting to leave but wanting to be around people. My husband of 26 years died 7 1/2 months ago. We had to move out of state while he was ill because we couldn't afford to stay in the state we were born and raised…"
Oct 15
Danielle replied to Booklvr's discussion Husband died just 1 week ago
"Booklvr, I really am so sorry you are here. I am in a very similar situation to yourself, my husband Mike died at 39 years old on the 17th November last year, very suddenly. We had been married 11 years.  It is a horrendous time you are going…"
Oct 15
Booklvr replied to Booklvr's discussion Husband died just 1 week ago
"Thanks for the replies. Between panic attacks and crying my body is feeling limp. I'm struggling to fins a reason to be alive. I don't want anything without him."
Oct 15
NancyD replied to Booklvr's discussion Husband died just 1 week ago
"I am so sorry for your loss.  My husband died a month ago and I too struggle with feeling overwhelmed and scared.  What helps me is to try to just live "one day at a time", or even one hour at a time.  I just do whatever the…"
Oct 15
vintage56(barb) replied to Booklvr's discussion Husband died just 1 week ago
"Ditto to what Callie said. The first week or so I was not alone, had friends and family staying with me. You just have to get through it one day at a time, maybe one hour at a time. Take care of yourself. If you want to eat ice cream for breakfast,…"
Oct 14
Callie2 replied to Booklvr's discussion Husband died just 1 week ago
"Booklvr, Very sorry for your recent loss. The pain seems unbearable in the beginning-- we've all been there and understand. We can't avoid grief. What may be helpful is to seek out grief counseling or even a grief support group when you…"
Oct 13
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Husband died just 1 week ago

I'm in so much pain mentally and physically. I am so confused. My husband (39) died just 1 week ago. We were married 11 yrs. Devastation is a word that barely scratches the surface of what I'm feeling.my dad, sisters and nieces all flew in to be with me. Problem is that I don't have any family in the city where I live.I'm leaving in 2 days to stay with my dad for the winter. He lives an hour flight from me. I don't want to leave yet but the option of being alone in the house is not feasible.I'm…See More
Oct 13
Dianne in Nevada left a comment for Booklvr
"Welcome to Widville, Booklvr.  I'm so very sorry for your loss, but pleased that you found us. You'll find caring support and friendship here. Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask…"
Oct 10

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At 10:30pm on October 10, 2017, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, Booklvr.  I'm so very sorry for your loss, but pleased that you found us. You'll find caring support and friendship here.

Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.

Be sure to check out the HOME page for the latest news.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville.

 
 
 

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