"Hi, bstngrl, I read your post and it brought back many memories of when I lot my husband. My husband had a sudden heart attack November 20, 2011 and he left behind an almost 4 year old son. I'm sad that my son won't have much memories of…"
"My 42 yr old husband had a massive heart attack April 20, 2012. I will never forget trying to revive him knowing in my heart he was already gone. I'm 38, we have 2 children (16 yr old boy and 8 yr old girl) He was born to be a dad,…"
"Well, Christmas is over.. Thank God! I did not think it was possible to feel how I did 8 months ago when I lost John, but seeing my kids get up Christmas morning knowing that dad was not sitting there waiting with his camera to catch…"
"Hi Bstngrl, I just read your post and my heart goes out to you. It's been four months for me, and I really want the holidays to be over too. So many tears lately. I put up the tree for my son, but I think if he wasn't here I wouldn't…"
"I can't believe I'm coming up on 8 months.. Some days I just break down, while other days I smile over memories. My life has changed drastically, I miss my husband more than anything but realized early on, I have to live.…"
"@Daylyn-I am so sorry, I saw a small piece on my local news in Boston. What an amazing man you were married to, a real life hero in so many ways. I lost my husband 7 months ago, we have 2 children. It doesn't get easier, every day is a struggle…"
"@lisaandrich-The wedding was fun. Lots of friends sharing memories which made me smile and cry. This was my first wedding alone in 17 years, my heart ached when the last dance came on and my husband was not there.. I'm glad I…"
"This week I started going through old photo's and letters, I had a complete meltdown. I came on tonight and noticed so many people are going through the same thing I am, random moments of heartache. I miss John every day but some…"
Hi, bstngrl, I read your post and it brought back many memories of when I lot my husband. My husband had a sudden heart attack November 20, 2011 and he left behind an almost 4 year old son. I'm sad that my son won't have much memories of him. I also will be 39 in a couple of weeks. My self esteem and confidence went way down when he died because I was his for 13 yrs, so when I was asked out, I went. Lol, we are now actually dating but taking it very slow. Many blessings to you.
Hi Bstngrl, I just read your post and my heart goes out to you. It's been four months for me, and I really want the holidays to be over too. So many tears lately. I put up the tree for my son, but I think if he wasn't here I wouldn't have done anything. Just want you to know I care, and empathize with what you're going through. Take good care.
Welcome Bstngirl: I'm sorry for your loss but I'm glad you found your way to this site. I hope you will find the same comfort and understanding here at Widowed Village that I have. In the beginning I just read the blogs and posts and lurked in chat. Post and join us in chat when you feel comfortable. It is nice to be among people who "Get It"
I'm sorry for your loss, Bstngrl, but glad you found us. There is caring support and friendship here. Here's a good place to start: Basic Site Info
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