"Hi, bstngrl, I read your post and it brought back many memories of when I lot my husband. My husband had a sudden heart attack November 20, 2011 and he left behind an almost 4 year old son. I'm sad that my son won't have much memories of…"
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Bstngrl commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Born in the 70s
"My 42 yr old husband had a massive heart attack April 20, 2012. I will never forget trying to revive him knowing in my heart he was already gone. I'm 38, we have 2 children (16 yr old boy and 8 yr old girl) He was born to be a dad,…"
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Bstngrl commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Suddenly widowed
"Well, Christmas is over.. Thank God! I did not think it was possible to feel how I did 8 months ago when I lost John, but seeing my kids get up Christmas morning knowing that dad was not sitting there waiting with his camera to catch…"
Hopeful left a comment for Bstngrl
"Hi Bstngrl, I just read your post and my heart goes out to you. It's been four months for me, and I really want the holidays to be over too. So many tears lately. I put up the tree for my son, but I think if he wasn't here I wouldn't…"
Bstngrl commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2012
"I can't believe I'm coming up on 8 months.. Some days I just break down, while other days I smile over memories. My life has changed drastically, I miss my husband more than anything but realized early on, I have to live.…"
Bstngrl commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2012
"@Daylyn-I am so sorry, I saw a small piece on my local news in Boston. What an amazing man you were married to, a real life hero in so many ways. I lost my husband 7 months ago, we have 2 children. It doesn't get easier, every day is a struggle…"
Bstngrl commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2012
"@lisaandrich-The wedding was fun. Lots of friends sharing memories which made me smile and cry. This was my first wedding alone in 17 years, my heart ached when the last dance came on and my husband was not there.. I'm glad I…"
Bstngrl commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2012
"This week I started going through old photo's and letters, I had a complete meltdown. I came on tonight and noticed so many people are going through the same thing I am, random moments of heartache. I miss John every day but some…"
Bstngrl commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2012
"I was reading through some of the comments on here, I am so glad I found this site because I can relate. At home nobody understands, they try and I appreciate it but nobody can ever say they "know" what I feel because everyone…"
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- At 7:43am on January 18, 2013,
suddenlyalone said… - Hi, bstngrl, I read your post and it brought back many memories of when I lot my husband. My husband had a sudden heart attack November 20, 2011 and he left behind an almost 4 year old son. I'm sad that my son won't have much memories of him. I also will be 39 in a couple of weeks. My self esteem and confidence went way down when he died because I was his for 13 yrs, so when I was asked out, I went. Lol, we are now actually dating but taking it very slow. Many blessings to you.
- At 2:52am on December 18, 2012,
Hopeful said… Hi Bstngrl, I just read your post and my heart goes out to you. It's been four months for me, and I really want the holidays to be over too. So many tears lately. I put up the tree for my son, but I think if he wasn't here I wouldn't have done anything. Just want you to know I care, and empathize with what you're going through. Take good care.
- At 11:24pm on September 24, 2012,
Sunflower37 said… Hi Bstngrl, I'm so sorry for your loss. Im glad you have found you way to WV. It has help me so much. Hugs to you.
- At 9:19pm on September 24, 2012,
Joyce said… Welcome Bstngirl: I'm sorry for your loss but I'm glad you found your way to this site. I hope you will find the same comfort and understanding here at Widowed Village that I have. In the beginning I just read the blogs and posts and lurked in chat. Post and join us in chat when you feel comfortable. It is nice to be among people who "Get It"
- At 2:38pm on September 24, 2012,
kimkirt (KK) said… Bstngrl. I am so sorry for your loss. I hope that you can find comfort and support here at WV. The people are very kind and caring and we all understand. HUGS.
- At 12:38am on September 24, 2012,
Dianne in Nevada said… 
I'm sorry for your loss, Bstngrl, but glad you found us. There is caring support and friendship here. Here's a good place to start: Basic Site InfoJoin the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place. Those 'chirps' you hear when you're in Widowed Village mean people are talking in the Chat Room; stop in some time and join the conversations. I look forward to getting to know you here.
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