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Carol E
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  • Lincoln, CA
  • United States
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Carol E replied to Pooh898's discussion 365th Day Without You in the group Widowed in 2019
"Thank you Pooh Neither one of us wants to be here, but here we are. We didn't have children either, but I do have nieces and nephews. I still work part time, and I spend time with friends, go to dinner, movies, etc. I think you may not want to…"
Thursday
Carol E replied to Pooh898's discussion 365th Day Without You in the group Widowed in 2019
"Pooh - I'm so sorry for your loss. I had the one year anniversary of losing my husband Jan. 23, and it has been terrible ever since. I think it is finally sinking in that he is not coming back. My husband and I did everything together, played…"
Wednesday
ahdhu replied to Carol E's discussion 40 years in the group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Dear Carol E What a wonderful surprise, I got such a present from you. Thank you so much. See Carol Small little thing can bring you so much joy and happiness. No doubt it comes with some memories too. But keeping positive makes the day. Its seven…"
Feb 12
Carol E replied to Carol E's discussion 40 years in the group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Hi dperduyn - I'm sorry for your loss, and I certainly understand. I'm finding it still very difficult, even though I'm on depression pills. I do think Grief Share groups can help, even if they just make you feel like you're not…"
Feb 12
Carol E replied to Carol E's discussion 40 years in the group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Hi ahdhu Thanks for the encouragement. Yes, some days are better. January was difficult because it was the first anniversary of my husband's death. I am going to a local Grief Share group which does help as well as the encouragement and the…"
Feb 12
[email protected] replied to Carol E's discussion 40 years in the group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"I feel the very same way as you Carol.  I lost my wife of cancer of last June.  I am trying my best but still very hard on me.  My wife was an RN nurse.  "
Feb 12
ahdhu replied to Carol E's discussion 40 years in the group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"oh! Dear. Don't say that, be optimistic, you will not feel depressed. feel a little sad, "is with me too". specially when we talk to widows. We all here, have missed our loved ones very special people who has been with us for couple…"
Feb 3
Carol E replied to Carol E's discussion 40 years in the group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Thanks for your reply ahdhu, but nothing makes me feel good at this point. I feel less sad and depressed, though, which is better. Someday I hope to feel good again :)"
Feb 3
ahdhu replied to Carol E's discussion 40 years in the group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Dear carol E, i did not understand what you meant by not good. For sure i din't feel much depressed when i work with others. choose the type of work, that might be the odd reason. take care and accept that time is going to be the most important…"
Feb 3
Carol E replied to Carol E's discussion 40 years in the group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Yes, fitting into this  new life is difficult especially since it's not a life we chose. And I agree, that I'm not going to give up. I force myself to get out and do things with other people, and usually, when I do, I feel better....…"
Feb 2
ahdhu replied to Carol E's discussion 40 years in the group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Dear DIVIA I pray for your wishes to come true. Its OK to count days, with a lot of remembrance. to be Health conscious is first priority. We all have experienced or is experiencing, how much it hurts to think of the good days in the past. my best…"
Feb 2
DIVA70 replied to Carol E's discussion 40 years in the group Born in the 40s or Earlier
" I wish I could say it will get easier. It will be 2 years April 29th that my world was changed forever. I take it one day at a time. You are absolutely right about that. I find this site has offered a community that understands the highs and…"
Feb 1
Carol E replied to Carol E's discussion 40 years in the group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Thanks, ahdhu. I'm sure you're right. Time softens the pain, but it is always there ."
Jan 26
ahdhu replied to Carol E's discussion 40 years in the group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"dear carol as for me time was the only cure, be health conscious and accept the grief, it was hard in the first two years, but as time passed by it heals. to be occupied with you yourself and a little time on meditation was the best. what was good…"
Jan 26
Carol E replied to Carol E's discussion 40 years in the group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Thanks for your kind responses. Yes I expect that it doesn't get much easier -- we just get more used to the new reality.  "
Jan 22
Don replied to Carol E's discussion 40 years in the group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"It's been 10 years.  It is just  as painful but not so often"
Jan 22

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At 7:43am on January 22, 2020, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, Carol E. I'm so sorry for your loss, but pleased you found us. You’ll find caring support and friendship here.

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