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Carol E
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  • Lincoln, CA
  • United States
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Carol E commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2019
"Oh, Scarlet, how well you captured the feelings I'm having after a little over a year of losing the love of my life. This pain is something I've never experienced or expected to feel because I could not imagine life without my wonderful…"
Monday
Carol E commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2019
"Oh Riskybiz I'm so sorry. Yes I often wish I had gone first, but then I think of my husband going through what we are going through, and I wouldn't wish that on him.  It does get better, though. The first year I was in a fog, trying…"
Mar 21
Carol E commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2019
"I lost my wonderful husband a little over a year ago, and at times it is still so painful, although I do have some better days now. I think this virus has me very depressed too, and missing my husband's help. He thought things through, and I…"
Mar 20
Carol E replied to MattsMom's discussion Hello in the group Widowed in 2019
"I'm so sorry to hear about your loss MattsMom. My husband passed away 1/23/2019 from a heart attach suddenly, but he had been battling lung cancer for 3 years. He was in remission, but the drugs are very hard on the heart. Even though the…"
Mar 5
Groundhog43 replied to Carol E's discussion 40 years in the group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Carol, sorry for your loss.  I lost my Peggy on January 22nd last year. It is very difficult but I live in a continuing care community which has rallied around me with support and care. Don't know how I would have made it without this…"
Feb 26
Carol E replied to Pooh898's discussion 365th Day Without You in the group Widowed in 2019
"Thank you Pooh Neither one of us wants to be here, but here we are. We didn't have children either, but I do have nieces and nephews. I still work part time, and I spend time with friends, go to dinner, movies, etc. I think you may not want to…"
Feb 19
Carol E replied to Pooh898's discussion 365th Day Without You in the group Widowed in 2019
"Pooh - I'm so sorry for your loss. I had the one year anniversary of losing my husband Jan. 23, and it has been terrible ever since. I think it is finally sinking in that he is not coming back. My husband and I did everything together, played…"
Feb 19
ahdhu replied to Carol E's discussion 40 years in the group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Dear Carol E What a wonderful surprise, I got such a present from you. Thank you so much. See Carol Small little thing can bring you so much joy and happiness. No doubt it comes with some memories too. But keeping positive makes the day. Its seven…"
Feb 12
Carol E replied to Carol E's discussion 40 years in the group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Hi dperduyn - I'm sorry for your loss, and I certainly understand. I'm finding it still very difficult, even though I'm on depression pills. I do think Grief Share groups can help, even if they just make you feel like you're not…"
Feb 12
Carol E replied to Carol E's discussion 40 years in the group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Hi ahdhu Thanks for the encouragement. Yes, some days are better. January was difficult because it was the first anniversary of my husband's death. I am going to a local Grief Share group which does help as well as the encouragement and the…"
Feb 12
[email protected] replied to Carol E's discussion 40 years in the group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"I feel the very same way as you Carol.  I lost my wife of cancer of last June.  I am trying my best but still very hard on me.  My wife was an RN nurse.  "
Feb 12
ahdhu replied to Carol E's discussion 40 years in the group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"oh! Dear. Don't say that, be optimistic, you will not feel depressed. feel a little sad, "is with me too". specially when we talk to widows. We all here, have missed our loved ones very special people who has been with us for couple…"
Feb 3
Carol E replied to Carol E's discussion 40 years in the group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Thanks for your reply ahdhu, but nothing makes me feel good at this point. I feel less sad and depressed, though, which is better. Someday I hope to feel good again :)"
Feb 3
ahdhu replied to Carol E's discussion 40 years in the group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Dear carol E, i did not understand what you meant by not good. For sure i din't feel much depressed when i work with others. choose the type of work, that might be the odd reason. take care and accept that time is going to be the most important…"
Feb 3
Carol E replied to Carol E's discussion 40 years in the group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Yes, fitting into this  new life is difficult especially since it's not a life we chose. And I agree, that I'm not going to give up. I force myself to get out and do things with other people, and usually, when I do, I feel better....…"
Feb 2
ahdhu replied to Carol E's discussion 40 years in the group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Dear DIVIA I pray for your wishes to come true. Its OK to count days, with a lot of remembrance. to be Health conscious is first priority. We all have experienced or is experiencing, how much it hurts to think of the good days in the past. my best…"
Feb 2

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At 7:43am on January 22, 2020, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, Carol E. I'm so sorry for your loss, but pleased you found us. You’ll find caring support and friendship here.

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