"I'm really happy for everyone that is moving forward in their lives and with new relationships. But for me, I'm so very 'on the fence' about another man in my life...guess that means I'm not ready.. I'm almost…"
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Mariposa left a comment for Carolann
"Hi Carolann. Thank you for the friend request. I'm thankful you understand where I am coming from. Peace, healing and comfort to you. ~Mariposa (Barb)"
Carolann commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"I think we've all had some strange dreams since our loved ones have passed. I've noticed that sometimes I see my husband, but he acts like he doesn't see me. I've come to the conclusion that it's because I'm here, and…"
Carolann commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"Marsha and Mariposa, we have similiar views. The first things that I had to do was sell his motorcycle, boat and van. I couldn't maintain them and it really made me feel bad that it was his favorite things that had to be sold first. But for me…"
Carolann commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"thanks Mariposa, I think he did mean "The Gate" and I am so happy for him. Like Paula, I had dreams that made me feel he was very unsettled and this was a big comfort.
I haven't been alone in my house since my husband passed,my…"
Carolann commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"I recently had a dream where my husband Perry and I were lost. We were in a place unfamiliar. I finally found someone in my dream that could tell me the way out. When I turned to tell Perry that I found the way out, he was lost, I couldn't find…"
Alive & Mortal left a comment for Carolann
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: : ☂ : :: :big ♥ & shelterfrom the stormto you on yourbirthday...(((((HUG)))))"
Carolann commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Suddenly widowed
"Sometimes I just come to the site for comfort, and I read and read. I find it amazing that I have a little bit of something from everyone. At one week, I was a blur, I couldn't see one step ahead, just like willo19. and like bmxtsue I have a…"
Carolann commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Suddenly widowed
"I wish that none of us had to go through this. It was 3 months ago today, that I spent my last full day with Perry. We went for a little drive that day, did some lawn-saleing, nothing exciting, just together.... if wishes could come true....I'd…"
Carolann commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"I have a picture of my husband Perry on my desktop at work. I can enlarge it so, it almost feels like he is directly in front of me, smiling. It is him in his van, as if he just drove in our driveway. I also sit in his chair everyday. I feel…"
Carolann commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Suddenly widowed
"My husband, Perry, died at age 51 of angioedema-that is the swelling of the throat, tongue & lips due to long term use of quinapril - his blood pressure medicine. It was classified as 'natural' but it somehow doesn't feel so…"
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Suddenly widowed
For those widowed suddenly or unexpectedly by any cause. The complementary group is "Long term illness." Yes, you may join both.We now have a "Suddenly widowed" discussion in the PERENNIAL main forum. Q's? Widville@gmail.comSee More
Carolann commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"Nata, I too had the same kind of dream. In the dream, my husband was drying of his back with a towel, like he'd been mowing outside or something. and I said "You've been gone so long, I'm glad you're back" and then he…"
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- At 7:40pm on March 8, 2013,
Mariposa said… Hi Carolann. Thank you for the friend request. I'm thankful you understand where I am coming from. Peace, healing and comfort to you. ~Mariposa (Barb)
- At 9:20pm on September 15, 2011,
Alive & Mortal said… - ☁ ☁ ☁ ☁
:: : :: :: : ::
: : ☂ : :: :
big ♥ & shelter
from the storm
to you on your
birthday...
(((((HUG)))))
- At 1:07am on September 15, 2011,
Dianne in Nevada said…
- At 10:21am on August 1, 2011,
Iris said… - Wishing you strength today. Try to remember all those good years, and maybe get out a little bit to distract yourself. That's what helped me make it through my anniversary. Oh and by the way, happy anniversary!! Remember the love is still there
- At 8:45am on August 1, 2011, Dianne in Nevada said…
I saw your post that today is your wedding anniversary ... and so soon following your loss. May precious memories wrap you in love today, Carolann.
Hugs, Dianne.
- At 8:50am on July 18, 2011, Dianne in Nevada said…
- Hi Carolann. I saw your post in the Widowed in 2011 group, but since I'm not a member I couldn't respond there (I'm in the 2010 group). Just wanted to tell you that I also found it very helpful to carry my husband's wallet with me during my first months. At about the 3 month mark, I put his wallet away in a special place but placed his drivers' license in my wallet. It's the first thing I see when I open it and still brings me peace at 10 months. Blessings to you.
- At 10:43pm on July 15, 2011,
Lisa (lost) Lamb said…
- Welcome Carol ann, So sorry for your loss. But glad you found us.
- At 10:52pm on July 14, 2011, Dianne in Nevada said…
Pleased you found us, Carolann. Take a look around and join our conversations. There is wonderful support here.Dianne
- At 8:09pm on July 14, 2011,
wannabmartha said… So sorry for the reason that you’re here but glad you’ve joined us. You’ll find insight, understanding and support here at Widowed Village. We’re traveling the same road together some further down the road than others. Join a group when you’re ready to get better connected. Participate in a forum and/or chat anytime. If you have questions, feel free to ask. There is always someone around willing to help.
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