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  • Hutto, TX
  • United States
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Cat commented on AandC's blog post Holding back the Sorrow and Pain so others don't feel it too
"Suzanne, I totally disagree with laurajay. There are plenty of men on the dating site Ourtime in their late 70's and 80 years old that are lonely and looking to meet someone. So if that's what you want to do, GO FOR IT!! There are couples…"
Sep 13, 2019
Cat commented on AandC's blog post Holding back the Sorrow and Pain so others don't feel it too
"Diva70 ~ I totally understand and if you are happy and at peace in your decision that is all that matters. No one should judge you for your decisions and doing what gives you  peace and happiness after losing the love of your life. I envy you…"
Sep 12, 2019
Cat commented on AandC's blog post Holding back the Sorrow and Pain so others don't feel it too
"Ladies this is NOT RIGHT!! You should NOT feel uncomfortable around other people because your spouse died!! What the hell, it wasn't your fault!! You cannot lock yourself away and stop living!  If you are with family or friends do your…"
Sep 11, 2019
AandC left a comment for Cat
"AandC I know exactly how you feel! It's been four and a half years since my husband passed and my mother passed away eight months before he died. Lately I just cry all the time when I am by myself. But I could be driving in the car or sitting…"
Sep 8, 2019
Cat commented on AandC's blog post Holding back the Sorrow and Pain so others don't feel it too
"AandC I know exactly how you feel! It's been four and a half years since my husband passed and my mother passed away eight months before he died. Lately I just cry all the time when I am by myself. But I could be driving in the car or sitting…"
Sep 8, 2019
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Aug 13, 2019
Cat replied to Jill's discussion A hard question but do you have any regrets about your behavior during your marriage?
"Oh you took the words right out of my mouth! I have been beating myself up since my husband died almost four and a half years ago!! So many times I was such a bitch and make life miserable. We were married for thirteen years and he had a drinking…"
Aug 13, 2019
Morgana (Janet) left a comment for Cat
"Welcome Cat. I am very sorry for the reason you are here but glad you found us. I live in Dallas but have friends in Austin and Rock Rock."
Aug 13, 2019
eliana left a comment for Cat
"Welcome to Widville, Cat. I am truly sorry for your loss, and hope you find caring support and friendship here. Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit you…"
Aug 2, 2019

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At 6:36pm on September 8, 2019, AandC said…

AandC I know exactly how you feel! It's been four and a half years since my husband passed and my mother passed away eight months before he died. Lately I just cry all the time when I am by myself. But I could be driving in the car or sitting at home, sometimes I get sad when I'm around my son and he asks what's wrong and if I tell him he just kind of shakes his head like I should be over it by now. But he just doesn't understand no one does. and no one ever will! You have to cry and let it out when you feel the pain. I know with time it has gotten better, but it will never stop hurting. Take care and hang in there. Sending hugs and blessings to you. 

At 7:40pm on August 13, 2019, Morgana (Janet) said…

Welcome Cat. I am very sorry for the reason you are here but glad you found us. I live in Dallas but have friends in Austin and Rock Rock.

At 1:33pm on August 2, 2019, eliana said…

Welcome to Widville, Cat. I am truly sorry for your loss, and hope you find caring support and friendship here.

Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville. Take care of yourself.

 
 
 

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