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CatCo
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  • Phoenix, AZ
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LorraineS replied to CatCo's discussion Signs and sightings in the group Widowed in 2020
"A couple of times when waking from a nap, I could've sworn my husband was sitting in his chair in the living room looking at me. That was for the first three days after he died on June 7. His death was completely unexpected. I've…"
Jun 25
CatCo replied to CatCo's discussion From diagnosis to passing in a month in the group Suddenly Widowed
"There is/was nothing to be done. Please don't spend time in what if's (hi kettle, I'm pot!). I am holding on to memories, closing my eyes, remembering his touch. Do the same. What ifs change nothing and they only tarnish the joyous…"
May 28
PhillyEaglesChick replied to CatCo's discussion From diagnosis to passing in a month in the group Suddenly Widowed
"Hi Ixia, That is almost my exact story.  My husband was diagnosed on April 8th and passed on May 15th at age 47, the same liver disease.  The shock hasn't worn off.  I can make it through most of the day, but some nights are…"
May 28
Tracey replied to CatCo's discussion Hard days on top of hard days in the group Widowed in 2020
"Tom, i just saw this.  I wish I saw it sooner as I would have written to you.   Sat must have been incredibly difficult.  This coming Sat would have been my 28th anniversary.  It is really tough.  My daughter wants to make…"
May 25
Tracey replied to CatCo's discussion Milestone One in the group Widowed in 2020
"CatCo, completely understand and relate.  My husband passed on 20 March. We would have been married 28 years this week.  As Larry mentioned below, this site is really helpful and people have empathy as they are also grieving.  One day…"
May 25
CatCo added a discussion to the group Widowed in 2020
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Signs and sightings

When Barry slipped into a coma, he began turning on the lights in his office. As he slipped away, he pulled up the countdown timer on the phones of 2 friends and up popped the words "time's up."He continued to turn on the lights in his office, make appearances to friends...but I haven't heard his voice, seen a sign, or felt his presence yet. Even when he turned on lights, I knew it was him. But I didn't feel him.Anyone else looking, seeing, wondering?See More
May 24
CatCo replied to CatCo's discussion Milestone One in the group Widowed in 2020
"I think those freaking Facebook memories are making this harder."
May 22
Larry2020 replied to CatCo's discussion Milestone One in the group Widowed in 2020
"Hi CatCo, I am so sorry for your loss, 25 years is a long time,  I know how hard it is, and how much it hurts. 8 weeks ago today my wife of 35 years passed away. Milestones have been really hard for me, I clearly remember week1, week 2, week 3…"
May 22
CatCo added a discussion to the group Widowed in 2020
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Milestone One

25 years ago todayatoday geeky young man walked in to my office to pick me up for our lunch date.He was adorable, sweet, and he had the best smile. I married him.Two weeks ago, Barry fell in to a coma and I never saw that smile again.We were looking forward to our 25th date-aversary.See More
May 22
Ixia replied to CatCo's discussion From diagnosis to passing in a month in the group Suddenly Widowed
"Hi, Cat: I understand what you are going through. My husband was diagnosed with liver cirrhosis on December 23 and died on February 10.  He was only 47 and with no previous conditions. One and a half month and he was gone. There are not enough…"
May 21
CatCo replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Sending you a hug. We are all in this together."
May 21
CatCo added a discussion to the group Suddenly Widowed
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From diagnosis to passing in a month

In February, my husband began feeling weakness on his right side. When he finally got the right doctor's appointment at the end of March/beginning of April, it was a whirlwind. He had a biopsy, met with the oncology team, and was getting ready for treatment. We were encouraged.He suffered a brain bleed, common with brain tumors I was told, slipped into a coma and died a week later. Just a few days ago.It is still raw, painful, unbelievable. And it sucks. A lot. Like a whole lot! But you all…See More
May 21
CatCo replied to Maggiepie's discussion Handwriting necklace jewelry
"Please send me the link. I would love to get Barry's "I love you" note on a necklace."
May 21
CatCo replied to Barbara Ann's discussion Where is my grief?
"Your grief is there in it's own way. Don't feel like you have to grieve like anyone else. Your memories are only yours. Your relationship with your husband is yours. And your grieving process is yours as well. There is so much going on…"
May 21
Tom replied to CatCo's discussion Hard days on top of hard days in the group Widowed in 2020
"CatCo - This coming Saturday would have been our 33rd wedding anniversary, and I am truly dreading the day. Then June 1st will be the 35th anniversary of the day Susan and I met (at a restaurant in New York City). July 20th would have been her 65th…"
May 21
SewCraftiMT replied to CatCo's discussion This hurts so bad in the group Born in the 60s
"My Prayers are with you. It's been 6 months and Grief Share classes really help. Even during this time your can take a class online Take your time and take care of yourself. "
May 20

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At 10:48am on May 18, 2020, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, CatCo. I'm so sorry for your loss, but pleased you found us. You’ll find caring support and friendship here.

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